Old crushes... 'just what was I thinking'?!

Do you ever get this where you were practically obsessed with one person for a long time (talking months here) and it was unrequited, or at least they didn't feel quite so strongly, and then suddenly it just clicks and you start thinking to yourself 'just what was I thinking?!'

For me it's weird because I used to be so hung up on a certain guy thinking why doesn't he like me back, I'll never be good enough for him blah blah and put him on a pedestal but now it's just... blank, like I can't even muster the energy to think about the person.. I never thought I'd get to this indifferent stage but in hindsight it really wasn't worth the emotional energy. I could have reached this conclusion much sooner and saved myself the painful mental anguish!

Ahh feels good man

Ameeeeen! Yes, I've felt like this before over a few people. It's so liberating, right? I look back and it makes me laugh.
At one point, I could've cried rivers over said person and now it feels like a distant memory...like it never even happened in the first place.

Nah, I had great taste as a midget. All the girls were either sleeper hits or remained solid.

I know how this feels. When you get over them you start to see all their faults that you were literally blinded to before.

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Yess haha the crying part, totally embarrassing! Crying over someone you were never actually with, you'd think it was an awful break up or something but nope just a crush! I hope it doesn't keep happening though, I'm 21, I can't keep continuing like this forever :P

Are you, by any chance, Tyrrion Lannister?

YES, exactly. If something as insignificant as a crush got us bawling, imagine how we'd be after a real breakup.
I feel the same way, I'm 20! I have a feeling it'll stop now that we've come out and admitted how pathetic it really is.

Haha honestly I'm glad im not the only one! I thought I was just really sad and needy for being so upset about it and I'd be mortified if someone found out I'd cried over a crush omg *hides* Yeah I know myself a little better now and I understand better how to go about getting what a want so hopefully there will be no more silly obsessions :P

Do you still see your old crushes out and about?

Haha, don't worry! Things like this happen to the best of us - it's just comforting to know we're not alone (and that we're all as weird as each other! )

Not after coming back home from uni, no! I doubt I'll see him much after I move back in a few weeks since we'll both be at different accommodations in different parts of town. It's a relief, really!
What about you?

Haha yup! :P Yeh same situation here actually, if I do see him it'll probably out and about on campus and honestly I wouldn't feel like stopping to talk, because I cba and really, what is there to say anymore?!

mine was like "wth were you thinking going along with what everyone was saying" alot of people(parents included) in primary school seemed to think me and this girl were made for each other,i believed it to until she told she didnt like me and i pretty much woke up..since then never looked back at all seen much nicer girls tbh and looking back at it now i didint really like her to begin with...