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Today was really scary.. he said he wanted too see me. Because he is in my state rn to see his kids. And I told him he couldn’t bc I didn’t want him too and I was scared of what the out come would be. Then I explained why he couldn’t and asked like “what tf am I supposed to do” because my whole family lives around here. He said “just get in the car.” I said no you can’t. He replied with “Why not? I neveh get what I want ion ever get what I want” I apologized and asked “how would you even get here you don’t know my addy” bc he didn’t I never told him or shared information with him. He said “I know how to pull up” I told him to promise me he wouldn’t he said no. I told him that we could “meet up Friday at a football game” so he wouldn’t come now. And at the time I’m home alone scared asf. And he says “it ain’t that easy” i said wdym he said “staying isn’t free” i said wdym what do you need? And he said “nothing im js I’m not gonna stay for free” and i was like uhm be specific and he said “it just cost money to stay another night baby” and i was like alright and I asked him to snap me a pic bc well I was scared he was coming. So he did and he was laying down sad asf. I felt scared and worry in my heart. I told him I was scared and he replied with “yeah” I called the cops. Told them I needed a restraining order. They asked so many questions I couldn’t tell them my address or anything they couldn’t pull up bc of my parents! They would’ve found out. But they said they would call back but they never did i think they thought it was a prank call. But I told them his whole name. So if he has warrants out he will come up.. and he told me he has 3 bodies so he prolly has warrants out.. and I couldn’t block him I was having a mental breakdown/ panic attack. She blocked him and I broke down and I couldn’t even see. It was terrible im checking every corner every motion im scared.


Hi there,

Sorry you are going through this.

Just reaching out to you as I wanted to let you know there is support available out there that may be of use. We are not sure where you are located but if you are based in the UK you can contact:

- Victim Support
https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/
Get in touch anytime for independent, free, and confidential advice:
Call Supportline on 08 08 16 89 111

- Refuge - Anyone, domestic violence
Website: https://www.refuge.org.uk

- Relate - Anyone, relationship support
Tel: 0300 0030 396 (need to book appointment for counselling)
Live chat: https://www.relate.org.uk/relationsh...hat-counsellor
Website: https://www.relate.org.uk

If you receive more abuse or feel threatened we would encourage you to go to the police.

Hope you find this useful and please come into ATCS if you have any further questions.

Look after yourself.

Best wishes,
TSR Support

Update on anonymous

Original post by Anonymous
Today was really scary.. he said he wanted too see me. Because he is in my state rn to see his kids. And I told him he couldn’t bc I didn’t want him too and I was scared of what the out come would be. Then I explained why he couldn’t and asked like “what tf am I supposed to do” because my whole family lives around here. He said “just get in the car.” I said no you can’t. He replied with “Why not? I neveh get what I want ion ever get what I want” I apologized and asked “how would you even get here you don’t know my addy” bc he didn’t I never told him or shared information with him. He said “I know how to pull up” I told him to promise me he wouldn’t he said no. I told him that we could “meet up Friday at a football game” so he wouldn’t come now. And at the time I’m home alone scared asf. And he says “it ain’t that easy” i said wdym he said “staying isn’t free” i said wdym what do you need? And he said “nothing im js I’m not gonna stay for free” and i was like uhm be specific and he said “it just cost money to stay another night baby” and i was like alright and I asked him to snap me a pic bc well I was scared he was coming. So he did and he was laying down sad asf. I felt scared and worry in my heart. I told him I was scared and he replied with “yeah” I called the cops. Told them I needed a restraining order. They asked so many questions I couldn’t tell them my address or anything they couldn’t pull up bc of my parents! They would’ve found out. But they said they would call back but they never did i think they thought it was a prank call. But I told them his whole name. So if he has warrants out he will come up.. and he told me he has 3 bodies so he prolly has warrants out.. and I couldn’t block him I was having a mental breakdown/ panic attack. She blocked him and I broke down and I couldn’t even see. It was terrible im checking every corner every motion im scared.


Hi there,

Sorry you are going through this.

Just reaching out to you as I wanted to let you know there is support available out there that may be of use. We are not sure where you are located but if you are based in the UK you can contact:

- Victim Support
https://www.victimsupport.org.uk/
Get in touch anytime for independent, free, and confidential advice:
Call Supportline on 08 08 16 89 111

- Refuge - Anyone, domestic violence
Website: https://www.refuge.org.uk

- Relate - Anyone, relationship support
Tel: 0300 0030 396 (need to book appointment for counselling)
Live chat: https://www.relate.org.uk/relationsh...hat-counsellor
Website: https://www.relate.org.uk

If you receive more abuse or feel threatened we would encourage you to go to the police.

Hope you find this useful and please come into ATCS if you have any further questions.

Look after yourself.

Best wishes,
TSR Support
i do not live in UK.

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