Hi all,
I am currently in Year 13 and have received all my offers for university. I have applied only in London, as I live here as I was planning to stay home to study.
However, I really think I need to move out as I no longer feel supported at home, neither do I feel like the environment is good enough for me anymore.
I think, the immense stress at home, the lack of space and constant arguments is already getting to me, where I am struggling with my A-levels.
Despite just doing mocks like last week and not having gone school today due to an appointment my mum is forcing me to revise and study for the real thing from today and will refuse to let me attend my extra-curricular activities or do my sports that I play.
I feel as if, if this continues throughout my degree I will burn out or even before that, and I will end up doing worse than I am capable off.
Now, she will not let me move out for university. She Muslim and South Asian and she keeps arguing with me and making up excuses and comparing me to her friends children who travel 3-4 hours to get to uni and back everyday which I do not think I can do.
Once I turn 18, this will in fact not change and she may even stop talking to me.
I really need help on how to convince her, or how to manage this environment throughout university before it is too late too decide.
If you suggest I stay out at the library studying, she will not let me as she expects me home early at around 4-5pm which I do not think is possible.
Sorry, if the wording is a bit off. I am just really lost and confused right now and any help will be appreciated.
Thank you in advance.