Hi,
I matched with a man on hinge and he was sending frequent messages before the first date. The first date then came and we had such a great time that we snogged. He told me he was going abroad for 6 days, so I told him to not message him and to enjoy his holiday.
Ever since he has come back, we have met up twice after and he messages so much less in between dates. I wish I never even said to not message me whilst he was on holiday....
On the third date I told him, that him messaging me less gave me mixed signals. The third date went really well again and he said he will message me more frequent.
However after the third date, he still messages way less than before. I am going to see him tomorrow for our fourth date how can I bring this up without making him think I am clingy.
If there was a sixth love language it really would be communication.
I am a 26 year old female and he is a 26 year old male and he is so super wonderful in person, just a shame the messaging declined over time.
can any men here please be so kind and help me on how to word this to him, so he understands fron my perspective because I am sending lots of messages and it feels very one-sided. I really like him and I find it hard to date someone who won't hold a fluid conversation on Whatsapp...
Thank you so much in advance!