I don't feel I'm satisfying my girlfriend in bed
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Talk to her about it?
And oral's never going to go down badly...
And oral's never going to go down badly...
Emily069
errr, STI's!!!!!
With one previous partner? Get checked out and then enjoy condom-less sex.
Try making it a little less about actually penetration and try to arouse her in other ways, so they final outcome is less important.
Experiment with different positions, and trying kissing her all over and find that place she really likes-I like being kissed on my stomach for example. Make it fun with different lotions, massages, oils...you can also find different condoms which have some texture and see if that works.
If you decide to watch porn, trying finding some that are more woman friendly, because most porn is so astonishingly bad it's not worth it.
Remember, and don't feel bad, but women like confidence. Go into sex knowing you WILL please her.
Hope this helps.
Experiment with different positions, and trying kissing her all over and find that place she really likes-I like being kissed on my stomach for example. Make it fun with different lotions, massages, oils...you can also find different condoms which have some texture and see if that works.
If you decide to watch porn, trying finding some that are more woman friendly, because most porn is so astonishingly bad it's not worth it.
Remember, and don't feel bad, but women like confidence. Go into sex knowing you WILL please her.
Hope this helps.
iamadjmcrone
I've tried that plus her on top, makes no difference.
doggydtyle FTW!
snipex
Watch porn. Watch so much porn that you can't go into a supermarket without imagining how the cucumber and the 65 year old at the checkout could be getting it on.
In seriousness, if you're comfortable enough ask her if there's anything "special" you could do. Learn a bit about the female anatomy. And have a look at the boring womens forums, they give you a useful inside view.
In seriousness, if you're comfortable enough ask her if there's anything "special" you could do. Learn a bit about the female anatomy. And have a look at the boring womens forums, they give you a useful inside view.
Alternatively, don't, because it'll **** with your idea of what sex should be like, and as a result you'll be utterly terrible in bed because you'll have no idea what a real woman is like.
Talk to her. If you can't, then really you shouldn't be having sex. Still, are we just talking mechanics here? Are you intimate? Do you kiss her while you're making love? And stroke? Those things make a difference.
get her in the mood watch a romantic dvd take her for dinner, try different sex moves, or get her drunk i.e. not rape as ur going together lol or take her to a club you should be on a high after the club its always good to start on one before u have sex it takes something big to make u dissapointed an if she is still u just must be rubbish in bed man
Bekaboo
Alternatively, don't, because it'll **** with your idea of what sex should be like, and as a result you'll be utterly terrible in bed because you'll have no idea what a real woman is like.
Talk to her. If you can't, then really you shouldn't be having sex. Still, are we just talking mechanics here? Are you intimate? Do you kiss her while you're making love? And stroke? Those things make a difference.
Talk to her. If you can't, then really you shouldn't be having sex. Still, are we just talking mechanics here? Are you intimate? Do you kiss her while you're making love? And stroke? Those things make a difference.
See the "In seriousness" at the start of my second paragraph? Indicates that I was not being serious in the preceding lines. Gold star for trying though, dear
Speak to her about what she likes, what works and what doesnt. Dont try getting ideas from porn, thats more use as a visual stimulus rather than pleasurable techniques. You could try getting onto amazon and buying a book on techniques, find one with good reviews and get some ideas you can try. Overall though, I think communication is the way foward.
I think everyone has pretty much covered it, to be honest! But I was going to suggest about the condom-and-going-soft thing - get some free ones from the clinic and practice putting them on yourself, alone. That way you'll get quicker at it and it won't be such of a big deal.
Fore to the play. Sex doesn't always have to end with you poking her.
I suggest that you hire yourself an escort or go to a massage parlour and learn tips and tricks from women that do it for a living.
snipex
See the "In seriousness" at the start of my second paragraph? Indicates that I was not being serious in the preceding lines. Gold star for trying though, dear
And? Whether you're making a joke or not I don't think it's something to be joked about. Even if there are millions of men out there who manage to watch porn and still have normal and healthy sex life I know way way too many who have totally messed up ideas about what a woman should be, or how they should behave, because of the idiotic degrading **** they download of RedTube and so I don't think it's something that should be joked about.
And next time you neg, at least sign your name.
Bekaboo
And? Whether you're making a joke or not I don't think it's something to be joked about. Even if there are millions of men out there who manage to watch porn and still have normal and healthy sex life I know way way too many who have totally messed up ideas about what a woman should be, or how they should behave, because of the idiotic degrading **** they download of RedTube and so I don't think it's something that should be joked about.
And next time you neg, at least sign your name.
And next time you neg, at least sign your name.
Jesus, this isn't a SRS debate. I happen to think it is something to be joked about, because it only affects certain types of guys, whom I find to be idiots. I happen to know one person ( my best male friend ) who watches so much porn that he has no idea about how to actually treat a girl, and as a result i'm having a little fun watching him mes up his casual relationship in which he is only after sex.
And the only person I've ever neg'd was some idiot posting nationalist stuff in another thread.
snipex
Jesus, this isn't a SRS debate. I happen to think it is something to be joked about, because it only affects certain types of guys, whom I find to be idiots. I happen to know one person ( my best male friend ) who watches so much porn that he has no idea about how to actually treat a girl, and as a result i'm having a little fun watching him mes up his casual relationship in which he is only after sex.
And the only person I've ever neg'd was some idiot posting nationalist stuff in another thread.
And the only person I've ever neg'd was some idiot posting nationalist stuff in another thread.
When you've been here a little longer you'll realise that subs can see who negged them. Right next to your blank little -4 neg it says snipex. I can send you a screen shot if you'd prefer...
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