I’m a gay guy and I'm in my first year of uni, I'm out to all my housemates and friends back home but that's it atm. I'm kind of close to one of my male housemates, he's straight and he's not long broken up with his girlfriend of 3 years.
Just after I first came out to all of them, he asked me if I've ever done anything with a guy and I said no and that was it at the time. He broke up with his gf like a month ago and after he asked me if I've met anyone and I said no and that I'm not really looking for a relationship, he then kind of made a joke about how we could be friends with benefits.
Me and our other house mates are worried about him after the breakup because he's been acting differently and said he wanted to die. I spoke to him the other day and told him I care about him and I said I'll listen to him if he wants to talk about anything and other things.
That night he was drunk and he got in bed with me and went to sleep and I just let him. The next day he was kind of confused about why we were in bed together and asked if we'd had sex, I said no and he said it was a shame.
Last night, he sent me a snap telling me to get in his bed later that night and we could make up for the other day and put a wink emoji. I didn't because I was confused and I think I've upset him as he's been ignoring my messages all day and he saw me earlier and went straight to his room.
How do I fix this?