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Are women comfortable with a man who uses delay spray?

I've had a problem with premature ejaculation during sex. I've used delay sprays like Promescent and Steady Freddy (yeah, weird name) to help me last longer in bed, but I haven't told my partner that I use it. I'm afraid she'll judge me negatively if she finds out. Ladies, if you found out your partner was using delay spray to last longer, what would you think?
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It shouldn't be a problem. Any person worth spending time with won't have a problem with it, and if they do they're probably not the right people to be around.
Some women won't mind, others will.

It's important to be aware that some delay sprays contain lidocaine.
If your partner is allergic or you plan to do oral, don't risk using a lidocaine containing product.
Original post by WalterM
I've had a problem with premature ejaculation during sex. I've used delay sprays like Promescent and Steady Freddy (yeah, weird name) to help me last longer in bed, but I haven't told my partner that I use it. I'm afraid she'll judge me negatively if she finds out. Ladies, if you found out your partner was using delay spray to last longer, what would you think?

Is it really that different to a guy taking Viagra, Horny Goat Weed or any other sexual supplement?

I'd understand your anxiety if you were "putting it about", or she was a f**k buddy... but I'm assuming this is a meaningful relationship? If so, there's bound to be way more to your relationship than just sex, no? If anything, I reckon it'll be more of an issue if you kept it from her and she somehow found out (N.B. unless it's a surprise trip to Paris, generally secrets aren't good in a relationship).

If anything, she should be grateful you're taking proactive steps to ensure she's satisfied 🤣
no i doubt anyone reasonable would have a problem. You should probs say tho cos she might be hiding stuff too who knows
Original post by Old Skool Freak
Is it really that different to a guy taking Viagra, Horny Goat Weed or any other sexual supplement?

I'd understand your anxiety if you were "putting it about", or she was a f**k buddy... but I'm assuming this is a meaningful relationship? If so, there's bound to be way more to your relationship than just sex, no? If anything, I reckon it'll be more of an issue if you kept it from her and she somehow found out (N.B. unless it's a surprise trip to Paris, generally secrets aren't good in a relationship).

If anything, she should be grateful you're taking proactive steps to ensure she's satisfied 🤣

Wouldnt it be the same as a guybusing other things etc viagra?

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