I'm a male university student (1st year), and in the past few months I have been getting close to this girl I know from halls. I confessed that I had feelings for her about a month ago, and she told me that she does as well. We've been intimate with each other (not quite sex but as near as), and when we are together it just feels "right".
Problem 1: she was apprehensive about getting into a relationship this close to summer break (live 200 miles away from her) - her friends told me that she had said that this was the main obstacle - and I told her not to worry about that at all, because it's only a couple of months, I'd wait for her, and that I'd come and see her during the break, and she was very happy about that.
Problem 2: we barely see each other. I mean sometimes we don't see each other for over a week, and she is very slow to reply over social media so there is very little conversation there, but when we are together everything feels perfectly fine. At the moment she is very stressed out with exam work, and so we have little contact.
Problem 3: we are not official i.e. we are not ostensibly "in a relationship".
What does this look like to you? I am perfectly happy to wait for her over summer, because in truth, I have strong feelings for her, but only if there is something that I am waiting for.
Is it weird to not see each other at all for so long? Am I just being inconsiderate of her in all this? I really need some outside perspective in all of this.
Thanks.