anal sex.. should I be embarrassed?

Both his and your posts are equally valid. Whilst it can be expected to happen, it's still not a pleasent experience. I don't think you can really critisise and I don't think he can really complain.

Hey, this is my first post on here. I didn't know where else to go to ask if I should be embarrassed or not?

I have done anal sex once before and there were no accidents, but we only tried it for not very long, as we had no lube and it was way too dry for me.

Last night we tried it again because I was on my period and I wanted to have sex with him before we both go to uni soon. I went toilet 2/3 hours beforehand and had a good wash aswell.
We then had the sex but at the end, I realised when he had pulled out there was a small mess on the condom.. he didn't say anything about it, and I didn't either and didn't feel bad about it because I thought it was expected to happen if we were doing it up the bum.

There was some mess in my knickers after when I got home aswell, and I just wondered if I should feel embarrassed about the accident.. I mean, something like that was expected to happen, I'm just worried about what he will think abut me?

I would never see the need to have anal sex though. To me, it seems quite frankly disgusting. And I assure you that quite a few men probably see anal in porn and think that looks good fun and surprisingly clean, and will therefore expect the same when they attempt it themselves.

If ANYONE, watches ANYTHING on porn and expects it to be the same in real life, you deserve to be spoken to in a condescending manner, seriously.

It also means you probably have a serious complex about the size of your penis.

It would be like saying, "Being a cop in NY looks really fun and exciting, I mean, Bruce Willis did just great in Die Hard."

I've ploughed my girl up the ass a few times and the same things happened to me once, did I care? No and neither will your boyfriend

Though use a condom, my girlfriend complained like mad that one time we didnt use one and I injected a creamy load into her ass