21, m, final year of uni and 'still' a virgin

go to Amsterdam with X amount of money will at least solve your problem

Ok. I was a virgin until 18, much like you, and I am now 19 and a bit and have slept with 7 girls since a few days ago :P. What did I change you may ask. . Well firstly I stopped playing video games and got out more, played sports and generally became a bit less "geeky". However, the one main factor in it all was gaining more confidence....I'm now very confident within myself and my body, and once you are confident you realise how truly easy it is to pick up a girl. As easy as saying "you wanna go back to mine". I would just advise you to start random conversations with people, and even if you don't feel confident, act it. Eventually acting will turn to reality. Good luck. If you want more specific advice pm me. I'd be happy to help you out. I was like you a few months ago.

Gentleman = Loser (to most girls nowadays).

Anonymous

Hit the gym, get contact lenses or nicer glasses, switch up your style, take up a few new hobbies that are accessible to your everyday person who you could chat to about, maybe go out and see some countries, learn how to dance (which depends on which types of women you want to date).

No don't do this, you shouldn't have to change yourself for anyone

I'm now 21 (and a half) and half way through my final year of uni. I don't go out that much coz I live at home (to save money for a decent future and hopefully a nice family home for a lovely wife) and my small group of uni friends also all live at home (and don't live close to me).

I've always had friends and had no real problem socialising with people coz I can be quite a funny guy sometimes. But i just cannot figure out why barely any girls like me more than just a friend (I had a dozen female friends at school).

Growing up I learned to be kind and considerate and especially when it came to girls I'd be honest with them and treat them like true ladies. After going through most of my uni life now I realise ladies don't really exist anymore and gentlemen don't exist either.

I lacked confidence with attractive girls at school because I have worn glasses since I was 5, and my blonde hair has always made me feel weak as a male, because blonde hair is seen as feminine. I do wear contact lenses now, have done so for the last 4 years, but it hasn't changed my luck with girls at all.

I always hate going through christmas seeing couples because it makes me angry that I have never experienced a true relationship. And now valentine's day is fast approaching...

Finally, I have snogged a girl and actually turned down sex with the school slut (because I knew she'd already slept with half my mates and it just felt wrong to sleep with her).

I REALLY need some advice, from anyone! PLEASE!

wat?

Don't improve your body?
Don't improve your health?
Don't dress (and make an effort to look) better?
Don't become a more interesting person?
Don't become a better person?

ARE YOU ******* KIDDING ME?

You need to stop giving out advice if that's the best you can come up with

someone's already advised you this, but i really cba to read this many pages, GIRLS DONT LIKE GENTLEMEN AT A YOUNG AGE (the good looking ones anyway.)

You need to stop being so nice to them. I once had the same problem, then i got this advice, start pretending to be nasty, etc, and don't be properly nice like, opening the door for them, or the whole idea that "let the women go first", because most girls just don't get a buzz (the gut-feeling) for anyone like that. You gotta be mean (only show nice-ness in hugging/flirting etc, and by mean , i dont mean like hit them XD), my aunt told me this advice, and after she told me, I saw some blog on the internet telling me the exact same stuff, and that guys find it works very often, even if you're not particularly good looking (but if you're ugly, bleh, horses for corses isn't it, just go for other ugly people.)

And don't listen to what girls tell you, otherwise they'll feel they have control over you, which will reduce your attraction ALOT. I.e. a girl ASKS you to buy a drink at a bar, Don't do it. Only buy a girl a drink if you like them and it's unexpected

I find all that stuff works when it comes to girls that have looks, and I see it works for many others too, not sure what everyone else thinks

"become a better person"? What, by "hitting" the gym and getting some better clothes...

I'm blonde haired, blue-eyed, often called cute or sweet :surprise: Srrly.

Ladies, you don't need to go to Sweden for this type of man. Call me or we can arrange sexual rendezvous (sic? rofl) via PM intit.

post comprehension fail.

If he does everything in that paragraph his life will get better........GUARANTEED. He will lose his virginity on his terms. He will get women.....GUARANTEED. Advising him not to improve himself is callous and I can't think of a reason why you would want to besides wanting to boost your post count.

What she said was the equivalent of the OP owning a car that failed it's MOT, and a mechanic comes along and says "Change the tyres, the cam belt and the rear left indicator bulb and you're good to go!". Then she comes along, WITHOUT the relevant knowledge of the process OR the laws of the road and says "nah you don't need all that!"

the **** outta here with that thinking.

I'm now 21 (and a half) and half way through my final year of uni. I don't go out that much coz I live at home (to save money for a decent future and hopefully a nice family home for a lovely wife) and my small group of uni friends also all live at home (and don't live close to me).

I've always had friends and had no real problem socialising with people coz I can be quite a funny guy sometimes. But i just cannot figure out why barely any girls like me more than just a friend (I had a dozen female friends at school).

Growing up I learned to be kind and considerate and especially when it came to girls I'd be honest with them and treat them like true ladies. After going through most of my uni life now I realise ladies don't really exist anymore and gentlemen don't exist either.

I lacked confidence with attractive girls at school because I have worn glasses since I was 5, and my blonde hair has always made me feel weak as a male, because blonde hair is seen as feminine. I do wear contact lenses now, have done so for the last 4 years, but it hasn't changed my luck with girls at all.

I always hate going through christmas seeing couples because it makes me angry that I have never experienced a true relationship. And now valentine's day is fast approaching...

Finally, I have snogged a girl and actually turned down sex with the school slut (because I knew she'd already slept with half my mates and it just felt wrong to sleep with her).

I REALLY need some advice, from anyone! PLEASE!

If you are with girls one of two options:

1. get a hooker - much less stress
2. get better with women.

I'd rather go to Sweden