Oh man, sorry to hear about that :/ But I am glad your dad is okay and also that you learned from his mistakes and seem to be a better Sikh than he was, I actually haven't had a whole lot of contact with Sikhs in real life to be honest, but from my limited interactions, I have found that the older generation got a lot of things mixed up with culture and doesn't really seem to know the true teachings of the religion. But I see a lot of the younger kids these days have way more Sikhi knowledge than their parents and grandparents. They don't get it mixed up with culture and are much better Sikhs than their predecessors. I think it is a really great thing
I have found that with each of the major world religions, there are mystical break-aways that are A LOT more tolerant and spiritual than the mainstream views.
Judaism has the Kabbalah, Hinduism has Bhakti traditions, Islam has the Sufis and a similar movement exists within Christianity as well.
To my knowledge, Sikhism is perhaps the only major religion in the world where the entire faith itself is mystical and spiritual, no need for break-aways, it is all about living in the present and experiencing God in this life without waiting until death for your reward.
Hmm tbh I have not experienced this. Like I am from a Muslim family and practiced Islam before I became Sikh and have been honest about it with everyone I have met at the Gurdwara and everyone was really nice to me and made me feel welcome, but obviously not everyone in a religion is the same so I'm sure it happens.
Lol what a geek, but don't worry, I am the nerd in my group of friends as well
It is nothing to be ashamed of, nerds are the ones that end up making the most money and running the world anyways lol. CEO 10K/day lol.
The close-mindedness exists in every community, not just Sikhism. Like yeah I have seen Sikhs who don't know much about other faiths, but tbh they're all like that. The Muslims at the Mosque I go to, most of them don't know the first thing about Sikhism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism and all they know about Christianity and Judaism comes from what they have been taught by Imams and Sheikhs, and a lot of it tends to be biased information.
But it is a really big shame, imo, that it is happening in the Sikh community because Sikhism encourages you to learn about other point of views and perspectives, but again, I think it is the older generation who are closed off by Punjabi culture. The younger Sikhs seem to be breaking out of the mold, are far better educated and knowledgeable on their own (and other) religions