Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?

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  1. Jeunet's Avatar
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    Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. He has a younger brother who is now married. For the past few years he had flirted with me openly at family gatherings . If he has had a drink he touches my bottom or slips his hand up my top he also says things like "do you want my number" he also asks me for kisses and cuddles. Its all done in a kind of jokey way but sometimes I wonder if he actually means any of it.

    What do you think, do you think he deep down wants me a little bit?
  2. bob dylan's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    lol obviously. you dont slip your hand up someones top as a joke
  3. [Insert_Username]'s Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    Erm, sexual harassment much.
  4. Davezk's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    Are you stupid?

    Hand up top. Asks for number.

    Wtf do you think?
  5. Eldedu's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    Hand up your top. Not a joke. If you don't believe me ask his erection.
  6. The Dark Lord's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by Davezk)
    Are you stupid?

    Hand up top. Asks for number.

    Wtf do you think?
    To be honest, I'm surprised he doesn't know your number already... what kind of brother is he???
  7. Jeunet's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by Davezk)
    Are you stupid?

    Hand up top. Asks for number.

    Wtf do you think?
    Kind of yes, when it comes to men anyway. I just keep giving him the benefit of the doubt thinking it's a joke but maybe it's not. But surely he wouldn't try anything with his brothers partner, do you think he likes me because I'm his "big brothers bird, therefore forbidden fruit?

    Before I started dating his brother I had a very short, but highly sexually charged relationship with a close friend of his in which I was pretty freaky. Sometimes I wonder if he has heard details of this and it has peaked his interest in me.
  8. Davezk's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by The Dark Lord)
    To be honest, I'm surprised he doesn't know your number already... what kind of brother is he???
    A married guy trying it on with his brothers girlfriend.

    Is this person Ryan Giggs?
  9. Jeunet's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by The Dark Lord)
    To be honest, I'm surprised he doesn't know your number already... what kind of brother is he???
    He asks if I want his mobile number.
  10. BaBaFiCo's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    Late night troll. Who fed them after midnight?!
  11. Davezk's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by Jeunet)
    Before I started dating his brother I had a very short, but highly sexually charged relationship with a close friend of his in which I was pretty freaky. Sometimes I wonder if he has heard details of this and it has peaked his interest in me.
    Tell your boyfriend what his brother is doing...

    You seem very casual about this. How old are you? Why are you being so naive?

    A married guy is trying it on with his brothers girlfriend and you are happy with that? Regardless of what has heard, do the decent thing. If you don't want to then meh whatever it's your **** life not mine.
  12. GQ.'s Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    Just give him a blowy and be done with it.
  13. Davezk's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by BaBaFiCo)
    Late night troll. Who fed them after midnight?!
    Me.
  14. Liblover's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    Why are you asking people that don't know him or you???
  15. AreYouDizzeeBlud_x's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by bob dylan)
    lol obviously. you dont slip your hand up someones top as a joke
    You do if you're a pervert and don't want to get caught. Don't hate the playa', hate the game!

    :smug:
  16. Jeunet's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by Davezk)
    Tell your boyfriend what his brother is doing...

    You seem very casual about this. How old are you? Why are you being so naive?

    A married guy is trying it on with his brothers girlfriend and you are happy with that? Regardless of what has heard, do the decent thing. If you don't want to then meh whatever it's your **** life not mine.
    I have told my boyfriend he does this openly in front of him sometimes, making a joke of it. I told my boyfriend to get him to stop touching me up and they had words but it keeps on happening.
  17. BaBaFiCo's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by Davezk)
    Me.
    What did the old Chinese guy say! Don't get them wet, and don't feed them after midnight! :mad:
  18. Jeunet's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by AreYouDizzeeBlud_x)
    You do if you're a pervert and don't want to get caught. Don't hate the playa', hate the game!

    :smug:
    So do you think he is perving on me and then making a joke of it to cover up?
  19. Davezk's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by BaBaFiCo)
    What did the old Chinese guy say! Don't get them wet, and don't feed them after midnight! :mad:
    I guess I didn't get that memo.
  20. AreYouDizzeeBlud_x's Avatar
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    Re: Does my boyfriends brother fancy me?
    (Original post by Jeunet)
    So do you think he is perving on me and then making a joke of it to cover up?
    Yes, definitely.

    Just a few questions, is your name Natasha? Is your husband called Rhodri? and is his brother in law called Ryan by any chance?

    Just a thought... :hmmmm2:
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