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LGBT+ Members' Questionnaire Mk. II

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1. What's your name?
vanessa
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for?
no
3. How old are you?
14
4. What's your gender?
female
5. What's your sexual orientation?
lesbian
6. How long have you known your orientation?
for a few days (:
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes?
yes, a lotta ppl think that since i have a bob, i'm bi.
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia?
yes.
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react?
yes, i'm out to most of my friends/family about my sexuality. friends were supportive and parents weren't supportive...
10. Do you know many LGBT people?
yes, most of my friends are apart of the lgbtq+ community.
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them?
no, not really.
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they?
no.
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically?
no.
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long?
no.
15. What do you look for in a partner?
kindness and loyalty.
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad?
no, but i've made out with a girl before and i liked it.
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad?
ys, i'd say it's fine.
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere?
no.
19. Name some fit famous people.
nicki minaj :wink:
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1. What's your name? robin
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for? i meant to fill this out a while back fkjflsjlfdsf
3. How old are you? 18 but i still feel like 14 sometimes (not in a creepy way yike)
4. What's your gender? (game)Boy trans edition
5. What's your sexual orientation? bi but dude orientated
6. How long have you known your orientation? uhhh, two years now
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? indecisive
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia? im closeted but i hear a lot of transphobia n biphobia
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? everyone pretty much knew i wasnt het but im only partially out as Boy but those ive told have been supportive tho my parents gave me the ‘blaaah u r too young 2 know tht’ thats left me in limbo for ages
10. Do you know many LGBT people? yes my cos group is majorly lgbt theyre the few im out 2
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? no
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? i havent been 2 pride yet i missed it both last two years
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? i am unsure how 2 answer this but i dont like rainbow capitalism vry much but if ppl include lgbt in their activism thts pretty cool n good i think
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? no
15. What do you look for in a partner? i uh,, guess relatability and comfort considering current crush
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? no
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? no
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? no
19. Name some fit famous people.
20. Show us your picture? cant do that 4 my safety hehe have a shin and noi instead

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1. What's your name? Jesús
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for? Not really.
3. How old are you? Just turned out 20.
4. What's your gender? Gender fluid, beteewn demiboy and demigirl 😅.
5. What's your sexual orientation? Asexual biromantic.
6. How long have you known your orientation? April 2020, but I started feeling something in 2015.
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? Nope.
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia? Nope (luckily).
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? Yes, but partially to my parents, brother and a couple of friends.
10. Do you know many LGBT people? A few, around 6 I'll say.
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organizations or societies? What did you think of them? Nope.
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? Not either.
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? Yes, but that didn't change my vote.
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? Not anymore :frown:
15. What do you look for in a partner? I want to be able to really talk to him, to really be able to understand me.
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? Nope, but I would like to.
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? Nope, but I would like to.
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? No, but I would like to.
19. Name some fit famous people. Tom Holland? Maybe...
20. Show us your picture? Only if you DM me 😂😂😂.
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1. What's your name?
-
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for?
...to cure my boredom? help me procrastinate? something like that
3. How old are you?
17
4. What's your gender?
female
5. What's your sexual orientation?
i just use gay/queer? probably closest to bi but honestly gay/queer just fits better
6. How long have you known your orientation?
5 years ish now?
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes?
oh, definitely. mainly bisexual ones. flannel, undercut, iced coffee, cuffed jeans, doc martens, the lot
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia?
a bit, but mainly out of ignorance.
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react?
I've been out since year 9 (which is.. 4 years ago? it was pretty soon after i worked it out) Most people have been supportive, i only lost a few friends, but my mum basically forced me out in a supportive way? I don't know if i was ready but she's bisexual herself so its not like she had any foul intentions
10. Do you know many LGBT people?
yes
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them?
i haven't! hoping to do so once i go to uni
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they?
I watched the LGBT London wind band play if that counts...and pride :biggrin: It was great, i loved it
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically?
they lowkey have to, for some reason a lot of politics is deciding who gets rights, you have to support your own. If you want them, i guess
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long?
Nope :smile: or :frown: depends how you see it
15. What do you look for in a partner?
similar political views, preferably smart? dunno if i meet people at music things or theyre just my type but i seem to go for them a lot
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad?
not much, but good i guess? Was my first proper relationhsip,, and we were both a bit inexperienced
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad?
haha sadly... sort of. wasn't terrible but the person (who was male) turned out to not be a great person so that kinda put a dampener on it. also one other guy but i dunno if you can call it a 'sexual' experience
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere?
-
19. Name some fit famous people.
basic but zendaya? jenna coleman? ester expósito? (and i guess tom holland?) just,,, ✨women✨ (and tom holland)
20. Show us your picture?
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1. What's your name? -Aden
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for? -Socializing
3. How old are you? -17
4. What's your gender? -Male
5. What's your sexual orientation? -Demisexual & Panromantic
6. How long have you known your orientation? -I've known I have feelings since I was 15
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? -Im a Fem-Boy
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia? -Not Really
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? -My gay parents were so proud :smile:
10. Do you know many LGBT people? -I know maybe 15 max
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? -
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? -
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? -
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? -I've been single for almost a year now
15. What do you look for in a partner? - I am looking for anyone who would take the time to get to know me and try and understand me
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? - Not Yet :wink:
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? -It was my first time and i struggled to get it up (Maybe I rushed into things, i never knew why I had troubles but I think if I had sex with the same gender I would be more Happy
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? -
19. Name some fit famous people. -
20. Show us your picture?
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(My glasses are broke and im in Spanish class) p.s Im from the US
Original post by dbmag9
I got bored and wanted to redo the questionnaire, so it's now slightly less intrusive and doesn't assume a gender binary, among other things. Copy it into a post and answer as much or as little as you want. :woo:

TSRLGBTSQII1. What's your name? Olivia
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for? To socialise and not be a introvert
3. How old are you? 13
4. What's your gender? female
5. What's your sexual orientation? gay
6. How long have you known your orientation? a year
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? yes
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia? Yes, people have said things to me
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? No and I don't think it is necessary. though some of my friends know.
10. Do you know many LGBT people? only a few
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? no
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? no
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? yes
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? no
15. What do you look for in a partner? Kindness, resilience, loyal, stubborn
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? no.
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? no.
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? no
19. Name some fit famous people. no.*
20. Show us your picture? Only if you PM'd me. But still no

You should also check out the LGBT Chat Thread (not linked since we seem to get through a new thread every few months) where we chat about pretty much anything constantly. cool, I will check it out

* because I don't have a crush on anyone
(edited 3 years ago)
1. What's your name?
Ellie
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for?
Nice gay vibez
3. How old are you?
27
4. What's your gender?
That's a tough one, the last few months I've kind of realised I'm maybe non-binary.
5. What's your sexual orientation?
Pansexual
6. How long have you known your orientation?
Oh goodness, I've known I wasn't straight since I was a kid! I didn't really know what to name it as until five or six years ago.
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes?
I don't know to be honest
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia?
Some homophobia yes, but not extremes. I'm very lucky to have open minded and accepting parents/family.
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react?
Yup - I think I was 18 when I really came out to my parents, but they knew before. It's not something I really discuss openly, I came out to a new group of friends last year and that was pretty scary still.
10. Do you know many LGBT people?
Most of the people I know!
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them?
No, I was too much of a wimp to join any societies at uni
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they?
No, I'd love to go to Pride one year.
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically?
Absolutely
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long?
Yup, five years this month. We got married almost a year ago. At our wedding my parents both came up to me and told me they were shocked I'd married a man, they'd been betting on a woman or nothing :tongue:
1. What's your name? This shall remain unknown
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for? No, I’m bored
3. How old are you? 26
4. What's your gender? Female
5. What's your sexual orientation? Lesbian
6. How long have you known your orientation? Since my early teens at least
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? I’m obsessed with blades and guns
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia? Yes from my super religious parent and fundamentalist church
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? I came out at 15
If you are, how did people react? My mum was in denial about it for a long time
10. Do you know many LGBT people? My gf, queer Christian group, etc
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? No
What did you think of them?
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? Nope, not even been to any Prides
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? I do factor them into my political voting but it’s not the sole reason
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? Been with my gf for over two years
15. What do you look for in a partner? Attraction and similar hobbies
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? My relationship is celebate
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? No
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? No
19. Name some fit famous people. No
20. Show us your picture? No
TSRLGBTSQII1. What's your name? Rather not say
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for? To find others in the community
3. How old are you? Rather not say
4. What's your gender? Female
5. What's your sexual orientation? Lesbian
6. How long have you known your orientation? About 3 months
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? Not really
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia? Luckily not but I haven't really come out. The only people I have come out to have supported me.
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? No and I'm pretty young so I'm going to wait a bit.
10. Do you know many LGBT people? Yes, I'm still at school and about half of my freindship group is LGBT.
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? I'm in a small society at school and I enjoy it but nothing else really
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? No
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? I'm too young
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? I have a girlfriend that I have been with for about a month.
15. What do you look for in a partner? Kindness, honestly, humour and someone thats always there for me.
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? I have kissed my girlfriend and I enjoyed it.
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? No just my girlfriend
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? No I'm young
19. Name some fit famous people. Um Meghan Trainor is really cute... and an actress called Zhang Yuqi
20. Show us your picture? I'd rather not
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Original post by dbmag9
I got bored and wanted to redo the questionnaire, so it's now slightly less intrusive and doesn't assume a gender binary, among other things. Copy it into a post and answer as much or as little as you want. :woo:



1. What's your name?
Jax
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for?
Not really
3. How old are you?
16
4. What's your gender?
Not too sure, maybe gender fluid? Still questioning
5. What's your sexual orientation?
Bisexual
6. How long have you known your orientation?
2 years?
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes?
I use the peace sign in pictures a lot aha
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia?
Yes, especially in my religious studies class. Also this certain guy in school who always calls me a lesbian for some reason, as if it's an insult lol - I just always reply with "At least I get more pussy than you", or if he does it again, I'll just tell him I ****ed his mum.
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react?
I'm out to my friends since about 1.5 years ago? Not my parents though. My friends were fine with it, I'm just worried my parents won't accept me or they'll be kind of weird about it or something.
10. Do you know many LGBT people?
I know quite a few LGBT people, but I only have a couple LGBT friends.
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them?
I haven't but I'm hoping to when I go to uni.
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they?
I was supposed to go to my first pride parade last year... but covid.
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically?
I'm not really political, but I feel like I really should be aha.
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long?
No, I'm very lonely lmao.
15. What do you look for in a partner?
I feel like my standards for men are a lot higher than for women. For men, I'd like them to be funny, kind, loyal, secure in their masculinity, taller than me, nice hair.
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad?
Nope.
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad?
Nope.
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere?
I'm not old enough yet.
19. Name some fit famous people.
Sebastian Stan, Andrew Scott, Zendaya, Harry Styles, Kristen Stewart, Elizabeth Olsen, Tom Hiddleston, Johnny Depp, BTS, girl in red, Pete Wentz
1. What's your name?
Anon #29
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for?
Just to read about other people's experiences.
3. How old are you?
17
4. What's your gender?
Genderfluid, any pronouns (btw I'm surprised that pronouns don't have a separate question...)
5. What's your sexual orientation?
Lesbian (aka women + Kirishima Eijirou)
6. How long have you known your orientation?
I've known I'm not straight since 14 but only known I'm a lesbian recently.
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes?
I listen to My Chemical Romance. But fr, considering I don't have much freedom of expression right now, not really. Although when I move out, I will own too much flannel and have too many tattoos.
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia?
Yes, although they weren't aimed at me. My parents are homophobic and make their opinions known when something queer comes on TV. My best friend used to be homophobic but that was out of ignorance, not hatred. Now she's more accepting.
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react?
I'm out online and to a couple of close friends irl (they all took it really well!) but not to my parents. I will only tell them if I'm in a long-term established relationship with someone that I could genuinely see myself marrying.
10. Do you know many LGBT people?
Yes, I go to a very gay all girls school but I also happen to be the only gay person in my friend group. So I only have 1 or 2 really close queer friends.
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them?
I went to the first session of my school's LGBT soc but the environment felt a little overwhelming so I didn't go back. I'm hoping to join one when I go to uni, mainly just to make queer friends.
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they?
Would you count a Dodie concert as an LGBT event? If not, no.
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically?
Definitely. I'm not going to vote for a homophobic bigot just because they make me pay less tax.
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long?
It's complicated. I have a semi-gf? We both know we like each other but they live 70 miles away and we haven't met irl yet so we don't want to make things official. I guess that's a lesbian stereotype - long distance relationships lmao. It kinda sucks though.
15. What do you look for in a partner?
I'm a bit of a typology nerd so if I reduced someone down to their personality types: ExFP 7w6 so/sx (basically a kiri kinnie).
But my semi-gf doesn't actually fit any of those so that just proves that it really doesn't matter. We just have to click.
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad?
Nope. Long distance sucks.
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad?
Nope. Although I almost did but then I realised I'm gay and that's why I really didn't want to go through with it.
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere?
Nope, I'm underage.
19. Name some fit famous people.
Evangeline Lilly was my first ever celebrity crush (as Tauriel from the Hobbit). I hated Kili.
Kristen Stewart, Emma Watson, Zendaya, Freema Agyeman, Aishwarya Rai, HoYeon Jung... I could go on forever.
20. Show us your picture?

No thanks but I'm desi, have shoulder length black hair and my artist friend always says I have nice facial features.
Where do I find trans women to date?
Original post by Anonymous
Where do I find trans women to date?

not on TSR bud.
What's your name? Shawn
2. Is there anything in particular you've come to the TSRLGBTS for? I saw my girlfriend (@Jonsie55) was in it so I joined
3. How old are you? 15
4. What's your gender? Male
5. What's your sexual orientation? Bisexual
6. How long have you known your orientation? About a year
7. Do you feel like you fit any orientation-related stereotypes? No
8. Have you experienced any homo- or transphobia? Kinda
9. Are you out? For how long, or are you planning to? If you are, how did people react? A little bit.. i've only told people i can trust.. some of my friends are homophobic so i don't really hang around them cause i get comments like "bro you're so gay" when i mess up something
10. Do you know many LGBT people? Yes most of my friends are gay or bisexual
11. Have you been involved in any LGBT organisations or societies? What did you think of them? No
12. Have you been to any LGBT events? How were they? No
13. Do LGBT considerations influence you politically? No
14. Are you in a relationship? If so, for how long? Yes about 3 days
15. What do you look for in a partner? Nice funny cute and smart
16. Have you had any sexual experiences with the same gender? Good or bad? Yes and it was good
17. Have you had any sexual experiences with another gender? Good or bad? Yes and it was also good
18. Do you go out on the 'scene' (LGB clubs and bars) much? Can you recommend anywhere? No
19. Name some fit famous people. Ryan Reyolds Emma Watson and Ariana Grande
20. Show us your picture? No thanks.. sry
(edited 1 year ago)

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