I'm Wonderful and I'm Single Society XII

Basically, be strong. Not many people can be though. I used to think I was, until recently.

Debate + Fire = Fiery Debate ~ it's good to see some differing opinions to these sort of things. The world would be boring if everyone thought the same.

That's directly from the book isn't it?



Participate don't alienate

Basically, be strong. Not many people can be though. I used to think I was, until recently.

It's a decision in my opinion.

Unless you're physically/mentally incapable, then that's different.

How about something as basic yet pretty catastrophic to normal life at the time as sleep deprivation? Would that go under physically / mentally incapable? People are changed by serious illnesses such as cancer.

Hmm it could go down as that, but I still believe it can be solved in a couple weeks at the most.

Cancer is a different ball game. So yeah I can understand if someone remains unhappy because they have it; but I knew one person that had about 3 months to live.. and decided to try and live the last of his days like he owned the world. 7 years later he's still here enjoying himself.

that's not how it works though, you surely know that? someone has just taken the fact someone had a certain attitude and linked it to their cancer going into remission or whatever.

Everyone has ups and downs but whether you get over it or let it wear you down is another question...links back to your mindset

What?

lol hilarious. I'd bank on the fact that I'm one of the most ambitious, thinking out of the box, matter of fact person you've encountered (apart from yourself). Weeks! Ok then You'd think I wanted to be this way.

The way people are formed is different. If it was so straightforward don't you think everyone would survive cancer and other illnesses.

This. And this. And this again.

I've not let 6 years of bullying affect me. If I did then I've lost the battle.

No, you misunderstand.. I know you are all of those things.

6-8 weeks, you would have it beat: By end of summer, I'm almost certain you would've solved it.

[I had it a little myself remember, though not as bad.]

to an extent, but it can't turn us all in to Einstein either. I mean, given where I am mentally right now that kind of stuff is pretty much impossible to see or feel y'know, is more a case of, no matter what I do, I feel bad about stuff.

how long you live is luck as much as anything with it, you can have whatever mindset you like, doesn't generally change whether you live 6 days or 6 years though, sadly, I wish the world where that simple, I really do, but it's not.

no, im just pointing out that people don't have as much control over their own lives as they like to think they do, and there's nothing wrong in realising that either.

eh? im just confused now

good for you? it occur to you that some of us might still be in a pretty bad way in that respect and people asking certain questions is kinda incredibly triggering and callous?

how long you live is luck as much as anything with it, you can have whatever mindset you like, doesn't generally change whether you live 6 days or 6 years though, sadly, I wish the world where that simple, I really do, but it's not.

I been feeling really low too lately remember?
But just try to see the positive side of things? In every obstacle - there's an oppoturnity.

Maybe because coupled with other small niggling problems, it has probably made it worse?