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Is watching porn cheating?

I don't think it is, there is absolutely positively no emotional or intellectual investment in it. It's basically a visual fleshlight.

In regards to cheating I am not tooting my horn when I say virtuous in that regard. No cheating ever, it's weak willed and repugnantly lazy.

My girlfriend says it is, I am hurt and confused.

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Reply 1

Clip

You don't need a girlfriend. You've got broadband.

Reply 2

CryptoidAlien

Porn is evil and cruel. Most porntarts are trapped in that lifestyle. Youtube the porn industry exposed.

Reply 3

Flauta

I don't think it's cheating but I can understand her being annoyed about it. Could be making her feel ugly and wonder why you'd rather be having sex with your hand than her.

Reply 4

SophieSmall

No it's not cheating, your girlfriend is probably just insecure you should talk to her about it. Does she watch porn? If not does she known why? Does she just not like it or find it arousing? Was she raised to believe porn is wrong etc? Sometimes couples can really grow and become more intimate from discussing these things or even watching porn together.

Reply 5

Softy31

It's not cheating; your gf needs to get over herself - massive drama queen.

Reply 6

doodle_333

I wouldn't consider it cheating, in the same way as checking out another girl in a club isn't cheating - but I would consider it a bit disrepectful to your partner

Reply 7

Truflais

It's not cheating. I can understand your girlfriend being annoyed if you'd rather watch porn than have sex with her but I highly doubt that's the case. Just talk to her about it.

Naah.

It's not cheating, I'm sure practically every girl in a relationship must know her boyfriend watches porn.

Reply 10

Siberiaan

Original post by Maid Marian

Naah.

Your back!

Reply 11

elpistolero7

This means I've already cheated today :sexface:

No it's not

Its not cheating, I know m boyfriend watches porn and I don't mind. Same as when I watch porn he doesn't mind!

Reply 14

rasberyl

It's not cheating...

But maybe she sees it as a betrayal of trust?

Still she's overreacting...

Reply 15

meenu89

No it isn't. If it is then I have definitely cheated too.

It's not cheating

No, she's crazy

Of course its not cheating. She's insecure, for whatever loopy girl logic reason she has come up with.

Reply 19

victoriajackson

It's not cheating but if my boyfriend was choosing to watch porn rather than have sex with me if it was a possibility I would be angry. But if not or I wasn't in the mood yeah sure watch away.