Advice on sex with a virgin?

Next weekend my friend is coming over, she's been into me for about two years now, she's about a 5-6/10. She's a very quiet girl. quiet obscure, nerdy and she has never had a boyfriend to my knowledge - I'm pretty sure she is a virgin.
Anyways I've always led her on a bit, just to keep my options open, today we went out for coffee and she has arranged to come over this weekend when my parents are not around (she doesn't know they aren't in but she should assume it).
So we're probably going to watch a movie on netflix but this girl isn't in my girlfriend range, she's just on the limits of my '****able' standard, so I'm just looking to have a casual **** with no commitment.
. Give me some advice on how to handle this - thanks.

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Reply 1

slade p

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no you start off smooth and gentle, then after a bit you get rough if you want too.

Reply 2

Chicken.M.

20

Be quiet rough. To not wake the neighbours up.

Reply 3

mollyxrose

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Make sure she understands it's casual before anything happens!!

Reply 4

anonymouspie227

20

Make sure she is consenting.

Reply 5

Isambard Kingdom Brunel

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Original post by Pussy Galore

Next weekend my friend is coming over, she's been into me for about two years now, she's about a 5-6/10. She's a very quiet girl. quiet obscure, nerdy and she has never had a boyfriend to my knowledge - I'm pretty sure she is a virgin.
Anyways I've always led her on a bit, just to keep my options open, today we went out for coffee and she has arranged to come over this weekend when my parents are not around (she doesn't know they aren't in but she should assume it).
So we're probably going to watch a movie on netflix but this girl isn't in my girlfriend range, she's just on the limits of my '****able' standard, so I'm just looking to have a casual **** with no commitment.
. Give me some advice on how to handle this - thanks.

You're a disgrace.

Why judge girls on a /10 basis and then admit you're just looking to have casual sex, but she isn't fit enough to be your GF?

Woah, what a douche. She certainly won't want to be your GF, I can imagine that now.

Reply 6

LavenderBlueSky88

20

Wow, what a gent.

Just leave her alone, she deserves better than to loose her virginity to an immature loser like yourself.

Reply 7

Brit_Miller

14

Slip it in the back door, she doesn't know any better

Reply 8

Deyesy

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I don't why people still feel the need to rate people out of 10 :facepalm:

Reply 9

Caedus

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Original post by Deyesy

I don't why people still feel the need to rate people out of 10 :facepalm:

Because it's a metric that gives us a ballpark figure on how aesthetically pleasing an individual is.

Reply 10

Deyesy

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Original post by Caedus

Because it's a metric that gives us a ballpark figure on how aesthetically pleasing an individual is.

How aethetically pleasing an individual is, is very subjective.

Reply 11

LaaaaddyyS

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She doesn't deserve to lose her virginity by someone like you.

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Reply 12

Caedus

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Original post by Deyesy

How aethetically pleasing an individual is, is very subjective.

To a certain extent, yes. The /10 scale is still important because a 5 to me is probably anything between a 4-6 to you. It still gives you a reasonably accurate idea of what's aesthetic and what isn't.

Reply 13

LaughingKitsune

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Why the hell would she want to lose her virginity, which she might be keeping until she meets the right guy, to a douchebag like yourself?

Get a hooker if you're that desperate!

Reply 14

Pussy Galore

OP

Original post by LaaaaddyyS

She doesn't deserve to lose her virginity by someone like you.

what does that even mean deserve to lose your virginity, i was raped at the age of 8 I didn't deserve that , nobody gets what they deserve the world is ****ed up accept it

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Original post by Deyesy

How aethetically pleasing an individual is, is very subjective.

but there is a general consensus on what is generally speaking attractive i.e susan boyle not edie campbell hot

Original post by Brit_Miller

Slip it in the back door, she doesn't know any better

Original post by LavenderBlueSky88

Wow, what a gent.

Just leave her alone, she deserves better than to loose her virginity to an immature loser like yourself.

Still not understanding this deserve to lose virginity thing?

Original post by anonymouspie227

Make sure she is consenting.

I always just escalate as much as possible

Original post by mollyxrose

Make sure she understands it's casual before anything happens!!

no she'll not want that

Reply 15

mollyxrose

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Original post by Pussy Galore

no she'll not want that

Then don't do it. Have you heard this thing that sex has to be consensual? It's pretty important.

Reply 16

Deyesy

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Original post by Caedus

To a certain extent, yes. The /10 scale is still important because a 5 to me is probably anything between a 4-6 to you. It still gives you a reasonably accurate idea of what's aesthetic and what isn't.

Original post by Pussy Galore

but there is a general consensus on what is generally speaking attractive i.e susan boyle not edie campbell hot

I can't disagree with either of your posts :smile:

Both very fair points :')

Reply 17

Caedus

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Original post by mollyxrose

Then don't do it. Have you heard this thing that sex has to be consensual? It's pretty important.

If he lies it's still consensual. He is, however, an absolute scumbag for leading her on. I've done the same though (but the girl wasn't a virgin) so I can't judge him too harshly.