We have regular sex, she enjoys herself and has orgasms by herself (when masturbating) but not with me, she often feels like she needs to pee when we have sex and when I finger her, I've given other girls orgasm putting in half the effort I do with her and I really want to do this for her, she knows that when she thinks she needs to pee that she dosnt because we've read up on it together, any advice? Also we have a good sex life e.g. A couple of times every time I see her