Insatiable lust for women, cant stop staring.
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Original post by cole-slaw
Not many 30 year old virgins are voluntarily withholding sex. So YES, it obviously is a bad thing.
I don't think OP wants to be a 23 year old virgin, so we must ask ourselves, what is he doing so badly wrong?
I don't think OP wants to be a 23 year old virgin, so we must ask ourselves, what is he doing so badly wrong?
I had an abusive childhood that left me terrified of women. A nervous breakdown left me with paralysing social anxiety where i couldn't leave the house for about 14 months.
I didn't change much in Uni because i didn't believe that women even like sex or that they'd even consider doing it with me. Few girls came onto me but i was still terrified to do it. I've improved a lot but i still can't get sexual with women or even approach them in public because i'll just get screamed at and humiliated for wanting to have sex with them.
I've tired Tinder, and OKC and POF, but not much luck with them. Is it legal to get an escort in the UK? I'm sick of it all.
Original post by Odd socks
I'm female, yes.
Clubs, online, apps like tinder, grindr etc, it's never been easier to find no strings attached sex if that's what you want and you possess basic social skills. If you're unable to speak to people then it's going to be harder
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Clubs, online, apps like tinder, grindr etc, it's never been easier to find no strings attached sex if that's what you want and you possess basic social skills. If you're unable to speak to people then it's going to be harder
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Clubs - more shallow than any other platform , most clubs are cockfests and the girl you approach has likely been approached thrice already , they only work for good looking guys or if a girl is particularly desperate .
Tinder and online dating are also quite superficial and also cockfests , for you to stand out from the other hundreds of messages she's received you have to be good looking , rich or some other stand ou attribute.
It all comes back to the 80/20 rule at the end of the day , the dating game is always in girls favour .
And im not being bitter im just saying it how it is.
What you are experiencing is pretty normal it's simply sexual attraction of women the fact you are a virgin also increases your sexual desires. I am not sure how old you are though you have been to uni yet ask a lot of questions someone of your age should know or be able to do a google search for, such as is escorting illegal or not?
Don't take cole-slaws words to seriously that fella has a thing for giving horrible advice he is not even here attempting to help just increasing whatever ego he has and forgetting this is about helping the OP.
Is it unusual for a guy to be a virgin past his 20s nearing his 30's yeah it is in western society where we have social pressure to lose it fast. Is it wrong to be a virgin in your 20's? No not necessarily clearly you can see as proven on TSR there are many guys in your situation. At the end of the day it's really up to the individual and when they either choose or feel comfortable having sex.
For some people like a friend I have he is a virgin out of choice for religious reasons, for others perhaps they simply do not socialise much and therefor miss out on those early chances to develop some social skills which may help in attracting a sexual partner. Still if you are a well rounded male these skills are not that hard to learn if you have some confidence. You clearly seem to have a good reason why you are a virgin you stated you suffered abuse in early life and now suffer anxiety.
My advice to you would just be to talk more to women and eventually you may meet a woman who actually enjoys your company who you can than have sex with depending on how well you progress the relationship. Don't look at women like they are so different from you, they too enjoy sex. Just talk to them like you would your friends and obviously flirt with them make them smile.
Some people have suggested seeking an escort for your first sexual partner not something I would personally advice but if a guy is having an issue attracting female attention and sees it as his last resort for whatever reasons it's up to him to think about that.
Personally my first was a woman I met on a night out, who I remember and I don't mind remembering so I usually tell other guys here on TSR who are virgins to do it with a woman you meet not an escort. Of course this is just my own experience, it does not mean you have to follow it. Still if you do not learn how to romantically/sexually pursue a woman's interest than you may end up simply having sex with escorts because you choose not to push yourself, the courting of a woman can be a fun experience and the sex feels even better.
Don't take cole-slaws words to seriously that fella has a thing for giving horrible advice he is not even here attempting to help just increasing whatever ego he has and forgetting this is about helping the OP.
Is it unusual for a guy to be a virgin past his 20s nearing his 30's yeah it is in western society where we have social pressure to lose it fast. Is it wrong to be a virgin in your 20's? No not necessarily clearly you can see as proven on TSR there are many guys in your situation. At the end of the day it's really up to the individual and when they either choose or feel comfortable having sex.
For some people like a friend I have he is a virgin out of choice for religious reasons, for others perhaps they simply do not socialise much and therefor miss out on those early chances to develop some social skills which may help in attracting a sexual partner. Still if you are a well rounded male these skills are not that hard to learn if you have some confidence. You clearly seem to have a good reason why you are a virgin you stated you suffered abuse in early life and now suffer anxiety.
My advice to you would just be to talk more to women and eventually you may meet a woman who actually enjoys your company who you can than have sex with depending on how well you progress the relationship. Don't look at women like they are so different from you, they too enjoy sex. Just talk to them like you would your friends and obviously flirt with them make them smile.
Some people have suggested seeking an escort for your first sexual partner not something I would personally advice but if a guy is having an issue attracting female attention and sees it as his last resort for whatever reasons it's up to him to think about that.
Personally my first was a woman I met on a night out, who I remember and I don't mind remembering so I usually tell other guys here on TSR who are virgins to do it with a woman you meet not an escort. Of course this is just my own experience, it does not mean you have to follow it. Still if you do not learn how to romantically/sexually pursue a woman's interest than you may end up simply having sex with escorts because you choose not to push yourself, the courting of a woman can be a fun experience and the sex feels even better.
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Original post by Mancini
What you are experiencing is pretty normal it's simply sexual attraction of women the fact you are a virgin also increases your sexual desires. I am not sure how old you are though you have been to uni yet ask a lot of questions someone of your age should know or be able to do a google search for, such as is escorting illegal or not?
Don't take cole-slaws words to seriously that fella has a thing for giving horrible advice he is not even here attempting to help just increasing whatever ego he has and forgetting this is about helping the OP.
Is it unusual for a guy to be a virgin past his 20s nearing his 30's yeah it is in western society where we have social pressure to lose it fast. Is it wrong to be a virgin in your 20's? No not necessarily clearly you can see as proven on TSR there are many guys in your situation. At the end of the day it's really up to the individual and when they either choose or feel comfortable having sex.
For some people like a friend I have he is a virgin out of choice for religious reasons, for others perhaps they simply do not socialise much and therefor miss out on those early chances to develop some social skills which may help in attracting a sexual partner. Still if you are a well rounded male these skills are not that hard to learn if you have some confidence. You clearly seem to have a good reason why you are a virgin you stated you suffered abuse in early life and now suffer anxiety.
My advice to you would just be to talk more to women and eventually you may meet a woman who actually enjoys your company who you can than have sex with depending on how well you progress the relationship. Don't look at women like they are so different from you, they too enjoy sex. Just talk to them like you would your friends and obviously flirt with them make them smile.
Some people have suggested seeking an escort for your first sexual partner not something I would personally advice but if a guy is having an issue attracting female attention and sees it as his last resort for whatever reasons it's up to him to think about that.
Personally my first was a woman I met on a night out, who I remember and I don't mind remembering so I usually tell other guys here on TSR who are virgins to do it with a woman you meet not an escort. Of course this is just my own experience, it does not mean you have to follow it. Still if you do not learn how to romantically/sexually pursue a woman's interest than you may end up simply having sex with escorts because you choose not to push yourself, the courting of a woman can be a fun experience and the sex feels even better.
Don't take cole-slaws words to seriously that fella has a thing for giving horrible advice he is not even here attempting to help just increasing whatever ego he has and forgetting this is about helping the OP.
Is it unusual for a guy to be a virgin past his 20s nearing his 30's yeah it is in western society where we have social pressure to lose it fast. Is it wrong to be a virgin in your 20's? No not necessarily clearly you can see as proven on TSR there are many guys in your situation. At the end of the day it's really up to the individual and when they either choose or feel comfortable having sex.
For some people like a friend I have he is a virgin out of choice for religious reasons, for others perhaps they simply do not socialise much and therefor miss out on those early chances to develop some social skills which may help in attracting a sexual partner. Still if you are a well rounded male these skills are not that hard to learn if you have some confidence. You clearly seem to have a good reason why you are a virgin you stated you suffered abuse in early life and now suffer anxiety.
My advice to you would just be to talk more to women and eventually you may meet a woman who actually enjoys your company who you can than have sex with depending on how well you progress the relationship. Don't look at women like they are so different from you, they too enjoy sex. Just talk to them like you would your friends and obviously flirt with them make them smile.
Some people have suggested seeking an escort for your first sexual partner not something I would personally advice but if a guy is having an issue attracting female attention and sees it as his last resort for whatever reasons it's up to him to think about that.
Personally my first was a woman I met on a night out, who I remember and I don't mind remembering so I usually tell other guys here on TSR who are virgins to do it with a woman you meet not an escort. Of course this is just my own experience, it does not mean you have to follow it. Still if you do not learn how to romantically/sexually pursue a woman's interest than you may end up simply having sex with escorts because you choose not to push yourself, the courting of a woman can be a fun experience and the sex feels even better.
I turned 23 about 4 months ago and getting really anxious about not having done it yet. I want to do it because im missing out on life and it;s driving me crazy to the point of losing sleep over it.
I also didn't socialise a lot due to anxiety issues in my schooling years so now i'm desperately trying to catch up to everyone else. Getting female attention isn't so much a problem ever since i quit looking at porn and masturbation. Taking the next step is where i struggle with. A girl i used to work with gave me her number after i suggested we hang out sometime. There's also another girl i met in a club way back in June. We're starting up a YouTube channel together and we'll be making videos and stuff. While i meet up with them, then i just feel uncomfortable thinking about sex with them. I fantasize a lot about sleeping with them but when it comes down to it, then i just get panic attacks and become almost asexual.
How exactly do you meet and sleep with women at the same time? What trick do you use to get women to do it with you? I can't seem to relax and assume that they also want sex too. Being out of school and having left my job makes it impossible to talk to women. I had a job doing door to door and can talk to women absolutely fine in a non sexual context but when it comes to being sexual then i cant speak.
How do you learn to pursue women sexually and romantically without feeling like a pervert for doing so? Women seem impossible to talk to and coerce as most of them just blow you off without giving you a chance. There is a sex therapist i know of through church, i'll contact him and see what he says. I do not like church and it's anti-sex stuff so i might stop going but i am afraid i'll be punished and not succeed in life.
Original post by Anonymous
How exactly do you meet and sleep with women at the same time? What trick do you use to get women to do it with you? I can't seem to relax and assume that they also want sex too. Being out of school and having left my job makes it impossible to talk to women. I had a job doing door to door and can talk to women absolutely fine in a non sexual context but when it comes to being sexual then i cant speak.
How do you learn to pursue women sexually and romantically without feeling like a pervert for doing so? Women seem impossible to talk to and coerce as most of them just blow you off without giving you a chance. There is a sex therapist i know of through church, i'll contact him and see what he says. I do not like church and it's anti-sex stuff so i might stop going but i am afraid i'll be punished and not succeed in life.
How exactly do you meet and sleep with women at the same time? What trick do you use to get women to do it with you? I can't seem to relax and assume that they also want sex too. Being out of school and having left my job makes it impossible to talk to women. I had a job doing door to door and can talk to women absolutely fine in a non sexual context but when it comes to being sexual then i cant speak.
How do you learn to pursue women sexually and romantically without feeling like a pervert for doing so? Women seem impossible to talk to and coerce as most of them just blow you off without giving you a chance. There is a sex therapist i know of through church, i'll contact him and see what he says. I do not like church and it's anti-sex stuff so i might stop going but i am afraid i'll be punished and not succeed in life.
It's not about tricking women you don't trick them it's not some scam. It's simply about meeting women in a place were the sexual tension is already naturally heightened for example in a club or bar there is already music and dancing so the lady should already be somewhat horny. So all you have to is approach strike up a conversation if there is a connection and you can read her body language you will eventually get close and kiss whatever happens after that up to you two.
Either numbers are swapped or back to hers/yours. When meeting a woman on the streets you will have to create the sexual tension through chatting her up and complementing her once again aim to get her number to stay in touch.
As for not coming of or feeling perverted it's basically down to the way you behave and approach her, if she senses you just want sex she may not want to talk. Although in a sexually charged setting like a club most women expect you to perhaps be a bit more forward. Why should you feel you are a pervert for simply chatting up a woman? It's a mans nature to want a woman, as long as you respect her personal space and she feels safe this really will not be an issue.
When you actually get the woman's number and you know she likes you is when you can be more sexual with your words to her depending on how she responds to you. Sometimes the woman won't really give you a sign and you just have to make a choice as to how you will initiate sex with her.
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Original post by cole-slaw
oh right, so that's what you're confused about. I thought you were arguing about the statistics.
So you are saying DON'T think there is a level of causation between having social skills and being able to get sexual partners? Is that the claim you are making?
So you are saying DON'T think there is a level of causation between having social skills and being able to get sexual partners? Is that the claim you are making?
Is it not obvious? That's the demonising part I'm referring to.
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Original post by Anonymous
I have been having this issue for a while.I just can't stop staring at women's backsides everywhere i go. I seem to have a thing for posh, preppy middle aged type women, but basically any girl with a nice ass and a cute face plus a tight body just makes me go insane.
In church today a woman came in late wearing a beautiful floral dress with a white cardigan and sat near me. Her legs looked incredible an her petite frame just drove me nuts. I kept glancing at her and fantasising how great it would be pull her skirt up, put my face in between her legs and just lie her down and go deep insider of her.
On the way out as i was going to the bathroom i saw her again and she smiled shyly and flipped/tossed her hair. I couldn't approach her as one of the senior members wanted to speak to me. I fantasized about her a lot and could think about nothing else.
Now every time i go out and see women, i must turn around and see if her ass is thick and juicy. I feel creepy and unable to relax when women are around. I'm 23 and have never had sex and every girl who looks half decent or stares in my direction i fantasise about ****ing them. Is this normal? I'm going crazy as just now at a social meet, this married woman looked so good and i could not stop staring despite her husband being nearby.
In church today a woman came in late wearing a beautiful floral dress with a white cardigan and sat near me. Her legs looked incredible an her petite frame just drove me nuts. I kept glancing at her and fantasising how great it would be pull her skirt up, put my face in between her legs and just lie her down and go deep insider of her.
On the way out as i was going to the bathroom i saw her again and she smiled shyly and flipped/tossed her hair. I couldn't approach her as one of the senior members wanted to speak to me. I fantasized about her a lot and could think about nothing else.
Now every time i go out and see women, i must turn around and see if her ass is thick and juicy. I feel creepy and unable to relax when women are around. I'm 23 and have never had sex and every girl who looks half decent or stares in my direction i fantasise about ****ing them. Is this normal? I'm going crazy as just now at a social meet, this married woman looked so good and i could not stop staring despite her husband being nearby.
You are a healthy, normal, young man.
Congratulations.
Please have consensual sex soon, your hormones need some kind of release! In seriousness though, as long as it isnt affecting your life and you are not acting upon these desires innapropriately then its probably fairly normal. If you start to feel it take over your life and you treat these women differently or put unwanted advances on them then get some help!
If you get to 25 still a virgin I think its safe to say there is something massively wrong with you that you need to sort out asap.
This guy is the only one who has stuck with his original points from the start. He is also correct, of course it's not normal to be a 30 year old virgin if your religion or medical condition doesn't enforce that.
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This guy is the only one who has stuck with his original points from the start. He is also correct, of course it's not normal to be a 30 year old virgin if your religion or medical condition doesn't enforce that.
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Endocrine Glands secrete hormones into the blood where it carries to the organs of the body where they influence cell activity which affects your metabolic rates (sexual or non-sexual). Human evolution made males more sexually receptive and reckless from the range of 13-30 because that's the ideal time to raise young in hunter-gather societies because of the poor life expectancy and fertile women. You attention to women must longer than usual because hormones last longer than Neurotransmitters which we use to image some sexual actives for short effects.
Original post by Anonymous
I have been having this issue for a while.I just can't stop staring at women's backsides everywhere i go. I seem to have a thing for posh, preppy middle aged type women, but basically any girl with a nice ass and a cute face plus a tight body just makes me go insane.
In church today a woman came in late wearing a beautiful floral dress with a white cardigan and sat near me. Her legs looked incredible an her petite frame just drove me nuts. I kept glancing at her and fantasising how great it would be pull her skirt up, put my face in between her legs and just lie her down and go deep insider of her.
On the way out as i was going to the bathroom i saw her again and she smiled shyly and flipped/tossed her hair. I couldn't approach her as one of the senior members wanted to speak to me. I fantasized about her a lot and could think about nothing else.
Now every time i go out and see women, i must turn around and see if her ass is thick and juicy. I feel creepy and unable to relax when women are around. I'm 23 and have never had sex and every girl who looks half decent or stares in my direction i fantasise about ****ing them. Is this normal? I'm going crazy as just now at a social meet, this married woman looked so good and i could not stop staring despite her husband being nearby.
In church today a woman came in late wearing a beautiful floral dress with a white cardigan and sat near me. Her legs looked incredible an her petite frame just drove me nuts. I kept glancing at her and fantasising how great it would be pull her skirt up, put my face in between her legs and just lie her down and go deep insider of her.
On the way out as i was going to the bathroom i saw her again and she smiled shyly and flipped/tossed her hair. I couldn't approach her as one of the senior members wanted to speak to me. I fantasized about her a lot and could think about nothing else.
Now every time i go out and see women, i must turn around and see if her ass is thick and juicy. I feel creepy and unable to relax when women are around. I'm 23 and have never had sex and every girl who looks half decent or stares in my direction i fantasise about ****ing them. Is this normal? I'm going crazy as just now at a social meet, this married woman looked so good and i could not stop staring despite her husband being nearby.
Cut that church **** out for a start. There is no greater hindrance to sexual matters than religion.
Some Sexual hormones are steroids like androgen where the molecules diffuses (with the concentration gradient) across the cell membrane, attach to receptors located in the cytoplasm. Those receptor hormones complex enter the nucleus and triggers gene expression. Very long lasting effect.
Original post by RachelFiveee
Please have consensual sex soon, your hormones need some kind of release! In seriousness though, as long as it isnt affecting your life and you are not acting upon these desires innapropriately then its probably fairly normal. If you start to feel it take over your life and you treat these women differently or put unwanted advances on them then get some help!
With who? I asked this girl out to meet this weekend but she can't. I'll be going clubbing so i'll be on the prowl and have lowered my standards; right now anyone will do.
It affects my life slightly as i get crazy and feel like undressing women in public. That woman in church i'll talk to and see if i can get her number or sth.
Original post by Anonymous
Are escorts legal in the UK? I don't wanna be arrested and become a sex offender. I have money and will happily pay for it. How much roughly are we talking about? Where do i find them?
Where can i find a sex therapist? I still have some shame about sex but it's coming down. I asked a girl to hang out and got her number, now i just gotta phone her up and set up a date.
Where can i find a sex therapist? I still have some shame about sex but it's coming down. I asked a girl to hang out and got her number, now i just gotta phone her up and set up a date.
Prostitution is a grey area legally. Soliciting is illegal. but most forms of it are either
tacitly condoned or not even against the law.
Go online, if you want to find an upscale hooker. There are even websites that assess the girls! Price varies enormously, and although I sadly haven't got any personal experience, I suspect that you don't necessarily get the best service simply by paying the most.
Not that you could likely afford one. The top of the market is for oligarchs and oil sheikhs, we are talking serious money.
A couple of hundred quid would probably get you a university graduate who is a lot prettier than 95% of students you meet! Obviously you don't get love, but you don't get that with a one night stand either, right?
Sex therapists are a specialised field. I would approach your GP as a first port of call. They could refer you to a psychologist and you could take it from there.
A hooker would be more fun and might be just the ticket! :-) They talk also you know, which is all a sex therapist would do...
Original post by Anonymous
How exactly? This advice is useless, its like telling someone "just be confident"
Confidence is gained and learned, not given.
And the world is fully half women, plenty of whom are within your preference brackets. I can't help you with everything. :P
Original post by Mancini
It's not about tricking women you don't trick them it's not some scam. It's simply about meeting women in a place were the sexual tension is already naturally heightened for example in a club or bar there is already music and dancing so the lady should already be somewhat horny. So all you have to is approach strike up a conversation if there is a connection and you can read her body language you will eventually get close and kiss whatever happens after that up to you two.
Either numbers are swapped or back to hers/yours. When meeting a woman on the streets you will have to create the sexual tension through chatting her up and complementing her once again aim to get her number to stay in touch.
As for not coming of or feeling perverted it's basically down to the way you behave and approach her, if she senses you just want sex she may not want to talk. Although in a sexually charged setting like a club most women expect you to perhaps be a bit more forward. Why should you feel you are a pervert for simply chatting up a woman? It's a mans nature to want a woman, as long as you respect her personal space and she feels safe this really will not be an issue.
When you actually get the woman's number and you know she likes you is when you can be more sexual with your words to her depending on how she responds to you. Sometimes the woman won't really give you a sign and you just have to make a choice as to how you will initiate sex with her.
Either numbers are swapped or back to hers/yours. When meeting a woman on the streets you will have to create the sexual tension through chatting her up and complementing her once again aim to get her number to stay in touch.
As for not coming of or feeling perverted it's basically down to the way you behave and approach her, if she senses you just want sex she may not want to talk. Although in a sexually charged setting like a club most women expect you to perhaps be a bit more forward. Why should you feel you are a pervert for simply chatting up a woman? It's a mans nature to want a woman, as long as you respect her personal space and she feels safe this really will not be an issue.
When you actually get the woman's number and you know she likes you is when you can be more sexual with your words to her depending on how she responds to you. Sometimes the woman won't really give you a sign and you just have to make a choice as to how you will initiate sex with her.
It feels like a scam because you have to convince people to like you and esp women to want to sleep with you, that's why i wanna know if there are any special tricks you use to make them want to do it.
I don't know why i feel like a pervert for wanting to do it. I don't impose myself on women or anything of the sort and i usually back away quickly and too soon in case i upset them and they don't want anything to do with me. It's just the whole idea of me wanting to sleep with women just feels wrong and not like something that is meant for me. That''s just how it was for me when i was growing up, i never got the girls.
There's a girl i worked with, i got her number and asked her out last weekend, but she was busy and couldn't do it then. It took a lot of guts to do it and it felt wrong for wanting to spend time with her but is till did it. Anyway i don;t know how to respond to her now and to ask her out again.
Original post by Juliechristine
If you get to 25 still a virgin I think its safe to say there is something massively wrong with you that you need to sort out asap.
This guy is the only one who has stuck with his original points from the start. He is also correct, of course it's not normal to be a 30 year old virgin if your religion or medical condition doesn't enforce that.
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What about for a female as females tend to less desperate and won't just go with any man.
Original post by Anonymous
It feels like a scam because you have to convince people to like you and esp women to want to sleep with you, that's why i wanna know if there are any special tricks you use to make them want to do it.
I don't know why i feel like a pervert for wanting to do it. I don't impose myself on women or anything of the sort and i usually back away quickly and too soon in case i upset them and they don't want anything to do with me. It's just the whole idea of me wanting to sleep with women just feels wrong and not like something that is meant for me. That''s just how it was for me when i was growing up, i never got the girls.
There's a girl i worked with, i got her number and asked her out last weekend, but she was busy and couldn't do it then. It took a lot of guts to do it and it felt wrong for wanting to spend time with her but is till did it. Anyway i don;t know how to respond to her now and to ask her out again.
I don't know why i feel like a pervert for wanting to do it. I don't impose myself on women or anything of the sort and i usually back away quickly and too soon in case i upset them and they don't want anything to do with me. It's just the whole idea of me wanting to sleep with women just feels wrong and not like something that is meant for me. That''s just how it was for me when i was growing up, i never got the girls.
There's a girl i worked with, i got her number and asked her out last weekend, but she was busy and couldn't do it then. It took a lot of guts to do it and it felt wrong for wanting to spend time with her but is till did it. Anyway i don;t know how to respond to her now and to ask her out again.
Well some could call it a scam I guess, I am sure there are plenty of guys or women that lie to their partners or potential partners for affection. Still normally when it comes to how I have approached women and then gone on to have sex it's no scam, in this world especially when it comes to women you either ask or you don't get or you in some way through playful body language initiate some sexual tension. If the lady is attracted to you she also wants to move the relationship forward so you have no reason to think it's wrong. she will let you know if she does not feel right about it.
For you I think it's some sort of psychological barrier blocking you and making you think you are doing something wrong, if you can ask a girl for her number I am sure you can progress slowly to the next step. Just act yourself and be confident don't weird the girl out.
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Original post by Mancini
Well some could call it a scam I guess, I am sure there are plenty of guys or women that lie to their partners or potential partners for affection. Still normally when it comes to how I have approached women and then gone on to have sex it's no scam, in this world especially when it comes to women you either ask or you don't get or you in some way through playful body language initiate some sexual tension. If the lady is attracted to you she also wants to move the relationship forward so you have no reason to think it's wrong. she will let you know if she does not feel right about it.
For you I think it's some sort of psychological barrier blocking you and making you think you are doing something wrong, if you can ask a girl for her number I am sure you can progress slowly to the next step. Just act yourself and be confident don't weird the girl out.
For you I think it's some sort of psychological barrier blocking you and making you think you are doing something wrong, if you can ask a girl for her number I am sure you can progress slowly to the next step. Just act yourself and be confident don't weird the girl out.
Yeah it's a block where i think that women are not interested in sex at all, and it's up to men to trick them into giving us sex. I've had women come onto me a lot but i just freeze and panic and can't confidently take the lead and **** them.
I'm really considering getting an escort but i don't know about it all really. It's like if a girl lets me know she's into me and wants me to take the lead then i dunno what she expects me to do or even how i'll do it.
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- Female friends keep touching him ?
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My friend might be getting extra time and i hate it.Last reply 5 days ago
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Dad keeps criticising my university degree choiceLast reply 2 weeks ago
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Last reply 5 days ago
My friend might be getting extra time and i hate it.Last reply 5 days ago
Just found out about UCL stat test but can't afford to sit itLast reply 2 weeks ago
Dad keeps criticising my university degree choiceLast reply 2 weeks ago
Is this pathetic or genuinely something to be upset about
