I get what you mean. I
love literature - especially prose and drama, but very rarely read poetry for pleasure. I enjoy picking it apart, just not really reading it and then moving on.
You seem to have two questions up there - the first being how to enjoy poetry.
I would say:
try everything. Look online for "
best poets" or something. I
know that sounds a bit daft, but perhaps it'll help. You could try a poem or two by some of the poets you find and see if you connect with any of them.
If that doesn't work, try looking for poems of a particular
theme you enjoy. For example, if you're really into the nature or something, look for
Romantic poets; they love nature. Or perhaps you love philosophy or you want a poem that blows you away about the meaning of life.
But, agreed, I still haven't really found a poet or a poem that I think "WOW" about, unless I'm actually doing close analysis on it and realise there's an amazing deeper meaning to it and start to enjoy it a lot more.
With regards to
understanding poetry if it's unseen, I would say just look at it line by line and ask yourself: "what might this be trying to convey?" I was doing a past paper with an unseen poem and the poem that came up was
'Cut Grass' by Philip Larkin. I had a feeling the poem might be a metaphor for dying before life has been fulfilled, but I wasn't completely sure. I would just say: go with your gut instinct, and as long as you work your quotes to support your ideas then you'll be fine.
I hope this helps!