He lives only half an hour away. He seems genuine and I trust him - within reason obviously, my desperation isn't making me naive - and we want to meet up.
Unfortunately I'm very awkward and insecure, so my suggestion was to meet up at night time on a hill somewhere...I know this rings alarm bells and I'd block him if he said this to me, but honestly for the first meeting I just want to feel confident and not self-conscious and the only times that happens is in the dark away from people. He naturally wants to me in a more conventional setting.
This isn't a hook-up by the way exactly.
I'm extremely attracted to him so despite my lack of experience and confidence I'm making myself meet him, but I'm not sure when or where and we can't decide what would be appropriate, to be safe and easy but also satisfy my parameters (dark, quiet, alone, outdoors...I sound creepy tbh).
Any general tips are appreciated.