Hi everyone,
I’ve met a guy online a week ago. Everything has been great: the chats are amazing, we really get along. He’s not my usual type. So I wasn’t smitten at once or anything. He’s a good texted, he cares, promptly replies even though he’s busy with work or lets me know that he’ll reply later. We live in different countries and I was going to his in 3 months anyway. So, we might meet.
He was initiating everything, the dynamic was great. But one day I lost my **** and texted him a long message, nothing too extreme. Just how nice he’s etc. it was too much and I should not have done it. It scared him. He says he is worried if things don’t work out and I’ll be too upset etc. he still texts and calls, but the dynamic shifted a bit. I feel I start chasing. I feel he’s cautious about compliments me etc which is a shame. At the same time I can see he likes me- he is flirty on calls, it’s like he can’t help himself. I think it could potentially work because conversations just flow unless I bloody soil it all overthinking.
Girls(and guys), please give me some tips? Im thinking of getting the grip and not texting until he texts and kind of forget what I had said to him, just mimic his style eg if he’s friendly I’m just friendly. And if he doesn’t text I don’t text. What do you think? Is it ruined for good?