My crush makes me sick, literally :(

But if he liked me why can't HE make the move??? i don't understand why this is falling on me to do the asking out, why can't HE?

Well beginning a conversation isn't that big a deal, but to actually ask one on a date is. I read a book about dating and it said if he doesn't make the move he's not into you

that's such a lie, guys can be much more nervous even if they're interested

he may be into you just a little scared himself about making that move

Whenever I think of him or of a future with him I get waves of nausea and my stomach churns and I get massive butterflies. Then the nausea became really bad and these past couple of days if I randomly think of him or when he replies to a text I actually physically vomit.
like for example today, out of the blue I thought of attending his family wedding next year with him and I just felt sick and my stomach flipped and I vomitted several times.
Help! How do I stop this? Too embarrassed to ask my irl for advice as I'll just get laughed out of the room

Physically vomiting is not right, I think. Do you experience that with anything else?

I'm actually a little concerned... I don't deem this natural, but then again, I'm no doctor.
How is your mental health? It might be something psychological.

In the meantime how do I stop the vomitting? Even now reading this thread is making my stomach churn

But if he liked me why can't HE make the move??? i don't understand why this is falling on me to do the asking out, why can't HE?

I went through something similar. Once my crush found out I liked her, I developed nausea and morning vomiting. Do you have any previous anxiety issues? Like generalised, or social anxiety?

Also, how old you are, if you don't mind me asking? And do you have much previous experience with crushes and getting with them? I think part of the reason that I was so anxious, leading to the sickness, was that I had no previous experience with girls, crushes and the like.

But if he liked me why can't HE make the move??? i don't understand why this is falling on me to do the asking out, why can't HE?

But if he liked me why can't HE make the move??? i don't understand why this is falling on me to do the asking out, why can't HE?

Why can't you? It's the same in reverse. Maybe he doesn't like you to the same extent, but would still say yes to a date.

I don't want to go on a date with a guy who doesn't like me as much as I like him! Then it'll feel like I'm spending the entire date trying to woo him when it should be the other way round!

Why should it be the other way around? By the end of the date he may well have fallen for you too. Neither of you should be trying to 'woo' the other; if you like each other's personalities then that that will show regardless it's very hard to be in a situation where both people really like each other before even the first date; that's the point of dating!

How do you know what to talk about on a date, see even thinking of date with him is making my throat tighten and stomach churn omg what's wrong with me Ezme

It's completely natural to be anxious before a date! I've cancelled loads of them just through nerves. Remember that he is just another person, and the worst thing that can happen is that you simply aren't compatible. Do you have any friends that you can talk to about him, because it seems like you could use a bit of friendly encouragement here?