that's the problem with asian parents
they push you and when you fail they think low of you
dont go by your parents, just work hard by yourself for yourself
i feel pressure from asian parents and family, but they are nothing, if they think having good grades is amazing then they should go and do some bloody exams...
just ignore everything in the form of pressure and 'pushyness' and just work hard yourself
forget general studies, just thrown that out of your mind
your 4 a level are the standard... if you get AABB then you're sorted for life, dont aim for AAAAA and the top university if you dont want to... you'll just feel despressed when you dont fulfil your own requirement (let alone the families expectations...)
the main thing is to ignore the family pressures and just work to your max, and if your max is BBBB then so be it, not everyone in this world can get AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA and study at UCL etc.