My School Banned Me From My Own Prom, who wants to help me fight back?

Like I don’t believe in evolution etc

Right.... ANd you can't see why voicing that opinion in a school might be an issue?

If you want an alternative course, you can have your religious community hold a similar party just for you.

"Socially we have more power than them".

That's just pathetic.

I haven’t really got one but thanks anyway

So, YEC? Anything else?

And what happens when subjects that don't follow your beliefs are taught at your school?

I still am respectful, the teachers teaching those subjects are aware and don’t force me to do anything I don’t want to do. However it is the head teachers which hate me because of it.

That’s not what I meant and this is also a girl who has spread false accusations and has been actively psychologically abusing me constantly, are you really going to pick up on some guys wording?

Hi guys I am a 16 year old boy who gets bullied at school, yes I’m one of the guys who eats alone at lunch etc, laugh all you want, I don’t care.

I have been the victim of bullying for about two years now and it’s really upset me, I’ve been psychologically emotionally and mentally abused. I have tried to complain to my school but it fell on practically deaf ears. I made numerous formal complaints yet this only made the school more angry and abusive.

Recently this one girl has been psychologically impacting me by bullying me and making up false accusations against me. She got the rumours going around the whole school which were proven by myself to be fake. She even admitted it herself she lied just because she wanted to see me get hurt etc. I lost many friends because of her and my reputation got damaged quite severely.

Yet the school ignored my cries for help, and my pleas to intervene and stop the bullying.

When I wrote a formal complaint the headmistress tried to tell me off, for writing too harshly because I called the school “wicked” for not helping me.

Now fast forward about 7 months. We had a school end of year prom and they decided to ban me from going because I made a formal complaint against the school for the hurt they caused me by letting me get bullied. I even bought a suit and was really excited for the occasion. I cried so much when I got told I would be banned. I have my suspicions that for some messed up reason that girl and a controversial teacher at the school have come up with a plan to ban me from the prom and leavers week. I also fear that they have much worse in stock for me, like at points I’ve literally feared for my life as I was scared if I spoke up, that girl might plan to have me stabbed etc (she knows rough people).

So far I’ve lost friends, my mental health is declining, I have anxiety etc brought on by this whole situation. I fear when I walk outside my house that this girl is going to plan for me to get beat up etc.

The school banned me from my own prom with little explanation despite my mums pleas for them not to. While they let this girl who bullied me go, and the school have even praised her for being horrible to me. I mean the headmistress told me she wouldn’t punish this girl because she was well liked. Another teacher told me “I was damaged and needed help” when I complained to her about what was going on.

It’s a nightmare in reality and I feel betrayed, humiliated and hurt by those who were supposed to protect me and I feel bullied and intimidated by this girl.

If anyone has been in a similar situation or knows how to fight back (obviously in a peaceful way) without causing any further problems, please let me know. I’m also scared that if I mention this case the school might try and do me for defamation against them. Please help me guys.

Wow that sucks I really can't help apart from offer my sympathy I would however recommend going to collage instead of your schools sixth form nobody will really know you you'll be able to make friends they will also treat you more like an adult taking complaints more seriously and will not stand for bullying or take sides like it seems your current school does.

I'm really sorry your going through this and you may just have to suck it up just know things do get better and people seem to grow up a lot in that summer between school and collage.

what country is this

You'll do better to let them be absorbed in their own arrogance, for the sake of propriety and prudence.

Did a quick bit of googling and found a 2019 estimate from the British Council that 85% of schools now have proms. That still feels a little high but I am sure many people out of school for 10yrs or more would be suprised by the speed of the take-up of them, so I am happy to correct myself there.

However, I would repeat that there is likely to be little/no expertise on TSR relating to disciplinary matters which led to someone being excluded from one. I imagine there may be only a handful of such cases in the UK each year. It's really up to the OP and their parents to raise their concerns with the school in a respectful manner.

It was traditionally an American thing but british schools seemed to have adopted it now..

I remember in year 11 my school had a prom and year 11 was a LONG time ago lol...

England

So you are a bigot? No wonder you were banned