TRIGGER WARNING: What is your sexuality if you are dating someone who is trans?

If one of you have a penis and the other a vagina, then you are heterosexual. If both of you have the same sex organs, then you are gay. If you don't care what sex organ your partner has then you're bi.

Doesn't matter how you dress it up it comes down to these three options.

I thought that initially as well but what happens then if you are a cis guy but you're a dating a transman that has a vagina or vice versa?

Pansexual with a dealbreaker that all dates must always present as a man and visually conform to one of her preferred physical types.
Regardless of the date's biological sex or specific gender self-id status.

You need to ignore terms like trans or cis when talking about sexual orientation asgender and sex are 2 different thing.

Refer back to the 3 previous options.

There are some people who make the distinction between cis and trans when talking about who they date, but I'm just using it to fully explore this.

This is where the confusion kind of lies: take someone like Buck Angel, he's a man but he still has a vagina, but with your options if another man who has a penis was to date him, he's heterosexual. You don't get the sense that something is off?

Answer the question directly if you want to - or answer based on this scenario

- A cis-woman (X) is willing to date a transman who has undergone full gender affirming surgery and has taken hormones for years but is not willing to date a transman who hasn't undergone any steps to present as a man - she also dates cis-men and doesn't date cis-women.

X also doesn't care if the transman has a vagina

So in your opinion, the gender that your partner is physically presenting as, has zero relevance with your sexuality.

I don't know if you've seen a picture of Buck Angel, but just to be clear, you think that a man who is sexually attracted to a biological woman that has:
- removed her breasts completely
- grew full facial hair
- developed a similar frame to a biological man but still has a vagina

is completely straight? even if that person looks like Hugh Jackman?

yes because thats a man who likes a woman. thats literally the definition. the traits of why you find them are attractive are irrelevant.

Women who date biological females that identifies men, who also dates men.....sounds like a bisexual to me.

But can you be bi if you do not find anyone attractive that appears to be female; she doesn't like the girly girls or the tomboys

In the scenario the woman dates biological females that identify as male but only if they appear as male - she doesn't date any woman who may or may not identify with the opposite sex and hasn't made any alterations to match the appearance of a man

She clearly does like tomboys.

To be fair I'm not too familiar with pan-sexuality but based on this scenario, this woman does not date other women at all (cis or trans women), so can she still be pansexual?

They still have tits and no facial hair - and I even doubt if most lesbians are interested in trans men.
This issue is more complicated to me but I guess no one else agrees