Why is she leaving some of my messages on seen? Am I overthinking?

I had been chatting with this girl(let's call her B as her name starts with B) since 28th May 2023.

I also asked out my childhood friend who is 21 turning 22 soon but she is yet to reply about when we can meet as she isn't that active on Instagram.

I do wanna ask her out but now I am scared because my childhood friend isn't coming online and B is also doing like this and I recently got rejected by 3 girls and I never had a girlfriend before. Is B angry on me and avoiding my messages or am I overthinking?

You are underthinking things. A week ago you were in love with girl A; you haven't had the courtesy to cancel your date request to her, and are already wanting to ask out another girl. Why so fickle? And why no phone calls to them?

https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7359735

Hey there,

I understand that you're going through a mix of emotions right now, and it's natural to feel unsure and overthink the situation. It's important to remember that people's behavior and circumstances can vary, and there could be many reasons for the change in her response patterns.

Instead of jumping to conclusions and assuming the worst, it's better to give her the benefit of the doubt. She mentioned that she wasn't feeling well and had exams coming up, so it's possible that she's currently focused on her studies and needs some time to herself. It doesn't necessarily mean she's angry or avoiding you.

In situations like this, it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly. If you're concerned about her recent behavior, it's okay to express your feelings in a respectful manner. Let her know that you value your friendship and appreciate the conversations you've had so far. Ask her if everything is okay and if there's anything you can do to support her during this time.

Remember, building relationships takes time and patience. It's important not to let past rejections or fears discourage you. Keep an open mind and continue nurturing connections with others. Focus on building your confidence and pursuing your own personal growth.

Don't be too hard on yourself. Take this as an opportunity to learn and grow, both in your interactions with others and in your own self-discovery. Believe in yourself, and don't let setbacks define your worth. Keep exploring new connections and experiences, and eventually, the right person will come into your life.

Because I don't have their phone numbers. I haven't talked with my childhood friend since 2011 in person so obviously I don't have her number. She hardly gets online on Instagram so I couldn't ask for her number yet. I only had been chatting with this other girl B for 3-4 weeks so I am afraid whether she will be comfortable to share her number or not. I already got rejected by 3 girls recently and they all blocked me too so I am afraid that B might block me too if I ask her number.