Boyfriend on &quot;Lads holiday&quot;

I think he's doing everything he can. To be honest this level of 'checking in' is a bit OTT to me, but I appreciate your concerns given your past.

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No mate I've ever been on a boozy holiday with has ever cheated on their mrs whilst there.

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Original post by 1582

He wouldn't be hanging on the phone talking to you so much if he were going to cheat. Trust him.

Actually he could he may just be using the phone as a way to just reassure obviously OP has stated that she does have anxious and overthinks although he may just be reassuring her for him to also then therefore get away with it and to go clubbing/partying yet come back at 3 or 4am that too when he claims he is going to “bed” is suspicious….especially if he was going with a bunch of boys why so late…

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Original post by Mohammed_80

Actually he could he may just be using the phone as a way to just reassure obviously OP has stated that she does have anxious and overthinks although he may just be reassuring her for him to also then therefore get away with it and to go clubbing/partying yet come back at 3 or 4am that too when he claims he is going to “bed” is suspicious….especially if he was going with a bunch of boys why so late…

I went to Portugal, on my own, for the entirety of June and wasn't home before 4am once. It's entirely normal.

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Original post by gjd800

I went to Portugal, on my own, for the entirety of June and wasn't home before 4am once. It's entirely normal.

That’s you mate your not OP boyfriend though… and you don’t know OP boyfriend… how certain are you

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Original post by Mohammed_80

That’s you mate your not OP boyfriend though… and you don’t know OP boyfriend… how certain are you

You said it's suspicious to be out till that time, and I am telling you that it's not. Have you ever been to a tourist drinking spot? I used to work in them, never mind all the time I've been on holiday to them. All the bars are open till 4 and the groups of lads are the first in and last to leave.

In any case, my judgement is equally as valid as yours - you don't know the OP or their fella, and here you are casting aspersions about him anyway. A bit of projection going on.

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Admit-One

I've been on a fair few 'blokes' holidays. Never known anyone to do anything silly and there's been plenty of late nights.

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Original post by gjd800

You said it's suspicious to be out till that time, and I am telling you that it's not. Have you ever been to a tourist drinking spot? I used to work in them, never mind all the time I've been on holiday to them. All the bars are open till 4 and the groups of lads are the first in and last to leave.

In any case, my judgement is equally as valid as yours - you don't know the OP or their fella, and here you are casting aspersions about him anyway. A bit of projection going on.

Na mate I don’t drink and no need to :rolleyes:

. If you say so not everyone is seen as innocent mate :dontknow:

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Original post by Mohammed_80

Na mate I don’t drink and no need to :rolleyes:

. If you say so not everyone is seen as innocent mate :dontknow:

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Talking out your hoop as usual, then. No experience of it, no knowledge of it, but it's 'suspicious'. Hilarious.

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Original post by gjd800

Talking out your hoop as usual, then. No experience of it, no knowledge of it, but it's 'suspicious'. Hilarious.

What do you mean talking out of the hoop as usual then. What experience do I need mate I don’t need to go to witness it at all or need any knowledge he may not be who he seems. Your judgment is hilarious :clap2:

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Original post by Mohammed_80

What do you mean talking out of the hoop as usual then. What experience do I need mate I don’t need to go to witness it at all or need any knowledge he may not be who he seems. Your judgment is hilarious :clap2:

You need knowledge of it to know if it's normal or not to be out till 4am in these places.

You've never been and so you have no clue, yet you offer half baked opinions on it anyway. Christ.

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Original post by gjd800

You need knowledge of it to know if it's normal or not to be out till 4am in these places.

You've never been and so you have no clue, yet you offer half baked opinions on it anyway. Christ.

Na mate perhaps at 4am your eyes were asleep to realise it ain’t normal and that clubbing and partying cannot only be with boys and yeah I’ve never been and have no clue great why would I when it’s prohibited and forbidden for me yet I am giving a logical explanation and valid reason and point hence the justification of such opinion. :rolleyes:

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Original post by Mohammed_80

Na mate perhaps at 4am your eyes were asleep to realise it ain’t normal and that clubbing and partying cannot only be with boys and yeah I’ve never been and have no clue great why would I when it’s prohibited and forbidden for me yet I am giving a logical explanation and valid reason and point hence the justification of such opinion. :rolleyes:

It is fully normal in a tourist spot to be out till 4am. literally millions of people every year do it. You wouldn't know, by your own admission. So why talk about that which you do not know?

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@Amb/conf your opinions and thoughts please…

Reply 17

Miss Jess

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Let's be honest he's on a lads holiday of course he will chat up a girl and cheat

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Original post by Miss Jess

Let's be honest he's on a lads holiday of course he will chat up a girl and cheat

Yeah spot on

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Surnia