How to get over heartbreak

I got dumped not that long ago, we were together for nearly 2 years, were in a really serious relationship and really in love. I never saw it coming that our relationship would end but I see the problems now. I was really really heartbroken for a while, but now I just feel weird- go through mood swings. Some days I feel very numb, other days I feel pretty betrayed still and angry, feel a bit of hate, then sometimes I just miss them still a lot and wish things could go back to how they were. Not sure I feel love for them anymore tho, I think the love is still there deep down, but I don't let myself think about that cos that will bring the pain back all over again. I hate thinking about them constantly every single day but I can't help it. The worst part is not knowing what they're thinking and the potential that they're totally fine while I'm still screwing.

I just wanted to know how long has it taken for other people to get over heartbreak and stop feeling like this and thinking about them constantly? And for those who have dumped someone they still loved but just thought their relationship wasn't working anymore, how long did it take you to get over it?

Go to a bar or club and get a new lad.

I got dumped not that long ago, we were together for nearly 2 years, were in a really serious relationship and really in love. I never saw it coming that our relationship would end but I see the problems now. I was really really heartbroken for a while, but now I just feel weird- go through mood swings. Some days I feel very numb, other days I feel pretty betrayed still and angry, feel a bit of hate, then sometimes I just miss them still a lot and wish things could go back to how they were. Not sure I feel love for them anymore tho, I think the love is still there deep down, but I don't let myself think about that cos that will bring the pain back all over again. I hate thinking about them constantly every single day but I can't help it. The worst part is not knowing what they're thinking and the potential that they're totally fine while I'm still screwing.

I just wanted to know how long has it taken for other people to get over heartbreak and stop feeling like this and thinking about them constantly? And for those who have dumped someone they still loved but just thought their relationship wasn't working anymore, how long did it take you to get over it?

I have made out with other guys since I got dumped, and it was fun and helped me forget about my ex in the moment, but it didn't stop me feeling so heartbroken the rest of the time and I'm not ready to date anyone else properly at all yet. I wanna get over feeling like this first.