I am heartbroken, help :(

Me and my man have been in a relationship for 5 months and he was the one wanting me first, he promised me the world and everything you can think of even marriage. Before that he got out of a 2 yr long relationship and recently it started to hit him with the realisation that he is still in pain from that heartbreak, his family knows about me while they did not know about his ex, i even spoke to his mother many times. Now he said he wants time to focus on himself because he is in so much pain from his ex ruining him and mental health servecie and police have been involved to investigate what she did to put him in such extreme state. We are doing non-contact and said he can’t be committed to me until he heals. He promised me so much and yet hurt me in the end, any advice on how to deal with it?

Me and my man have been in a relationship for 5 months and he was the one wanting me first, he promised me the world and everything you can think of even marriage. Before that he got out of a 2 yr long relationship and recently it started to hit him with the realisation that he is still in pain from that heartbreak, his family knows about me while they did not know about his ex, i even spoke to his mother many times. Now he said he wants time to focus on himself because he is in so much pain from his ex ruining him and mental health servecie and police have been involved to investigate what she did to put him in such extreme state. We are doing non-contact and said he can’t be committed to me until he heals. He promised me so much and yet hurt me in the end, any advice on how to deal with it?

Is this the guy who was flirting with you just a few weeks after his break-up? The one you've only met once 5 months ago?

Yes it’s this guy, and we were in a serious relationship

Me and my man have been in a relationship for 5 months and he was the one wanting me first, he promised me the world and everything you can think of even marriage. Before that he got out of a 2 yr long relationship and recently it started to hit him with the realisation that he is still in pain from that heartbreak, his family knows about me while they did not know about his ex, i even spoke to his mother many times. Now he said he wants time to focus on himself because he is in so much pain from his ex ruining him and mental health servecie and police have been involved to investigate what she did to put him in such extreme state. We are doing non-contact and said he can’t be committed to me until he heals. He promised me so much and yet hurt me in the end, any advice on how to deal with it?

Me and my man have been in a relationship for 5 months and he was the one wanting me first, he promised me the world and everything you can think of even marriage. Before that he got out of a 2 yr long relationship and recently it started to hit him with the realisation that he is still in pain from that heartbreak, his family knows about me while they did not know about his ex, i even spoke to his mother many times. Now he said he wants time to focus on himself because he is in so much pain from his ex ruining him and mental health servecie and police have been involved to investigate what she did to put him in such extreme state. We are doing non-contact and said he can’t be committed to me until he heals. He promised me so much and yet hurt me in the end, any advice on how to deal with it?