Hi ,
I started a new contract 8 weeks ago (so I employed by a different company to the guy) . I work with this guy who’s a manger . We get on okay in person when we talk about work he’s fine but if you try to talk about himself he’s a little shy . I am struggling to read him … he is always offering to take time to help with my work but I tell if he’s just being helpful or it’s something else. A few of his team have made a few comments hinting he may like me or that he’s more helpful to me than other people … he could just be invested in the work I am doing . He’s also 6 years older than me so he may not want to make me feel uncomfortable.
Recently I keep seeing his profile on a dating app, I naturally wanted to like him but I keep stopping myself and closing the app so his profile goes . But he keeps coming up … I can also see he’s active on it . He’s mentioned a few times about us both being single but it could just be convo.
Now I am really starting like this guy but he’s pretty shy and I don’t want to make it awkward. I am unsure if liking this guy on the app is a good way to see if they feel the same . He does have my number but we only talk work on there and we follow each other on insta .
A friend suggest I mention I have seen him on a dating app and see what he says . I have tried the moments been right ie nobody around but us and I can’t seem to do it.
We both have a meeting together soon and will probably get lunch out . I didn’t know whether I mention seeing him on the app . Or how to hint I like him without it being awkward .
Any suggestions welcome … I don’t normally have any issues telling a guy I like them .