I’ve been with my boyfriend for around a year and a half. I’ve shared amazing memories with him and I’ve learnt so much whilst being with him. I’ve known him for half of my life, but he only came back into my life last year after years of not seeing each other. At the beginning of the relationship, every ran smoothly and we had loads of fun. We even have had good times recently. He can be very generous and shows great affection. I am the same back and I have always gone above and beyond for him as I truly love him. He was a breath of fresh air after my first relationship (which was very bad). We first had our first argument quite early on in the relationship, but we talked it through and so on. We gradually started having more and they got worse. He said he wanted to break up many times and he would have a huge mental breakdown every time. We both act very differently in an argument- I want to resolve straight away and talk it over but he wants space. I get that he wants space, but there have been times when we’ve argued and we needed to just sort it quickly. A lot of the arguments we’ve had have been over very minor things, but then they escalate. Some things have a deeper meaning. I’ve felt incredibly sad every time and I feel like the best thing in my life is is being taken away from me. Arguments usually stem from me saying I don’t like something he has done or how he has acted. A few months ago we essentially moved in together (it’s his place, but I stay a lot of the time) and things were going great. We barely argued and he told me how much he loved me and that it’s the happiest he’s ever felt. He said how he wants us to grow old together. We had a few arguments after the first month or so. I’ve been staying at his place, but I have been paying my way and doing stuff around the place too. I do a lot for him and i like doing it because it’s my way of showing love. The night before last, I had just finished a 10 hour work shift, yet I still wanted to check up on him and asked if he wanted a lift home as he had been out all day at an event. He gave very blunt replies when I asked if he wanted a lift, which i thought was rude. I later found out that he was replying like that because his friend was sitting next to him on a very busy train and my bf didn’t want me to give his friend a lift too because he knew that his friend would ask if I picked my bf up. He wanted to get up really early the next morning, so he wanted to go home. He told me this after he left his friend at the station and then he asked me if I could pick him up. I was annoyed as he was still being blunt and impolite. All it took was simple manners and a bit of gratitude, as after all I was going out of my way to pick him up. He usually is polite but at the time he wasn’t. I just didn’t like it. I still went to go and pick him up and when he got in the car, I mentioned how I didn’t like it. Then he got so angry and started saying how I was ruining his day and that I always complain. If I ever do ‘complain’ I say it in a calm voice and I do it politely, yet he hates it so much. This is the the case in every argument. It’s been a whole day and a half and he’s saying how he wants to break up and all simply because of that one argument. How can he go from saying he loves me a few days ago to this?? It has happened in the past, and I’ve thought it was the end, but then he slowly comes out and apologises for being rude and he says he only says mean things because he’s angry and that he does actually love me. It really hurts and I feel broken.