I just want to understand why my husband has never tried to be physically intimate with me.
And what should I do about it. A brief history of events:
We have been married for two years now.
On our honeymoon night after we got to the hotel, we ate food at the hotel. He was on the phone to his brother ( who lives in a different country and didn’t get to attend our wedding but faced times the whole thing) whilst we were waiting for our food to arrive. When we finally got our food he proceeded to watch football throughout our meal. We then went upstairs only to sleep.
We have since been on many holidays where we have never been physically intimate.
Not have we been in our flat. Not even kissing me passionately.
I have had many conversations with him ever since we returned from our honeymoon.
6 months into our marriage, we had a falling out with his mum where we stopped speaking to her for a year and we argued about her constantly for that year. she is still a problem for us to this day. We don’t speak to her much anymore but as a whole our marriage has survived that event in our lives.
When I asked him, he said he was just being lazy.
Before our marriage we were always passionate with each other.
He knows this has been upsetting me, I told him I feel like I am begging him and I’m tired of feeling rejected.
Please help me understand this. Thank you