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I'm married but i'm afraid my ex and his current gf has my nudes with face

I was in a serious relationship for 5 years and we were about to get engaged. but unfortunately my bf cheated me and he had my nudes with faces with him.

My ex current gf did showed me that she has my nudes... after the breakup I started getting fake messages from fake Instagram and Facebook accounts, my ex and his gf had some of their personal photographs such as their romantic moments and one of the image was my exes showering nude with face as i got this pictures as I had access to my ex bf messenger account while he didn't knew about it.

when i got the message from a fake account about my nudes than i just called my ex and his gf and told them that go and post and be ready to see yourself viral over the internet as well as i also have your images.

Than they filed a complaint against me to the police station saying that i have their image and told me to delete it than i told them i will if only you guys will delete and the police officers said that they dont have my images still i dnt trust my ex anymore.

now i'm married and it been months but still the day before my engagement i did received a private number calling me but i didnt answered... but i know its my ex its been 1 year and 5 months they havnt posted my nudes but still im afraid they will do in future. it haunts me as i dnt want my married life to be ruined because of my past mistakes.
what should i do
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Original post by Galofwonders
I was in a serious relationship for 5 years and we were about to get engaged. but unfortunately my bf cheated me and he had my nudes with faces with him.

My ex current gf did showed me that she has my nudes... after the breakup I started getting fake messages from fake Instagram and Facebook accounts, my ex and his gf had some of their personal photographs such as their romantic moments and one of the image was my exes showering nude with face as i got this pictures as I had access to my ex bf messenger account while he didn't knew about it.

when i got the message from a fake account about my nudes than i just called my ex and his gf and told them that go and post and be ready to see yourself viral over the internet as well as i also have your images.

Than they filed a complaint against me to the police station saying that i have their image and told me to delete it than i told them i will if only you guys will delete and the police officers said that they dont have my images still i dnt trust my ex anymore.

now i'm married and it been months but still the day before my engagement i did received a private number calling me but i didnt answered... but i know its my ex its been 1 year and 5 months they havnt posted my nudes but still im afraid they will do in future. it haunts me as i dnt want my married life to be ruined because of my past mistakes.
what should i do


Maybe you could hire a private investigator to see if they can get any other info??
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Original post by Galofwonders
I was in a serious relationship for 5 years and we were about to get engaged. but unfortunately my bf cheated me and he had my nudes with faces with him.

My ex current gf did showed me that she has my nudes... after the breakup I started getting fake messages from fake Instagram and Facebook accounts, my ex and his gf had some of their personal photographs such as their romantic moments and one of the image was my exes showering nude with face as i got this pictures as I had access to my ex bf messenger account while he didn't knew about it.

when i got the message from a fake account about my nudes than i just called my ex and his gf and told them that go and post and be ready to see yourself viral over the internet as well as i also have your images.

Than they filed a complaint against me to the police station saying that i have their image and told me to delete it than i told them i will if only you guys will delete and the police officers said that they dont have my images still i dnt trust my ex anymore.

now i'm married and it been months but still the day before my engagement i did received a private number calling me but i didnt answered... but i know its my ex its been 1 year and 5 months they havnt posted my nudes but still im afraid they will do in future. it haunts me as i dnt want my married life to be ruined because of my past mistakes.
what should i do

There's nothing you can really do apart from accepting the situation for what it is. You took intimate pictures of yourself for your partner when you were in a long-term, serious relationship. You are now married to someone else. The pictures may or may not still exist. If he were to ever post them, revenge porn is illegal and he could go to jail for a few years. However, because it's been so long, it's unlikely that the threat will manifest.

Perhaps you could let your partner know of your worries so that you would be on the same page if anything were to happen, and then you can move on from this together as opposed to suffering in silence.
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Thank you for your advice, as I already did told my husband about my ex boyfriend having my nudes which has my face in it, first time when i told him he was bit upset on me and i thought he would leave me but instead he married me. He said you haven't slept with him so i actually dnt worry that much and he told me your ex is already in a relationship and i dnt think so he has your nudes and if he wanted he would have posted your nudes before not after a year.
My husband is saying I'm an overthinker, But still I'm afraid i dnt want my husband to go through my past. its true that my ex is in a serious relationship with someone else but when ever i get any private number calls its like i just know my ex is still after me.

Original post by SagaciousSag
There's nothing you can really do apart from accepting the situation for what it is. You took intimate pictures of yourself for your partner when you were in a long-term, serious relationship. You are now married to someone else. The pictures may or may not still exist. If he were to ever post them, revenge porn is illegal and he could go to jail for a few years. However, because it's been so long, it's unlikely that the threat will manifest.

Perhaps you could let your partner know of your worries so that you would be on the same page if anything were to happen, and then you can move on from this together as opposed to suffering in silence.

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