How good looking do you think you are?

why is it ok for someone to say they look ugly or hideous ut the minute someone says they are beautiful they get negged?!!

That's stupid. It can make someone feel terrible, how do you think low self-esteem develops?
Why would you try actively lower someone's self-esteem who actually doesn't feel bad about themselves?
It's rare enough as it is!

If someone thinks they're beautiful/great/etc then good on them.

Well if they think they're beautiful and are truely confident with the way they look than why should someone on tsr stop them from feeling that way.

You can't feel truly beautiful or feel truly good looking if your going to be upset about someone's opinion on you. You're obviously not as perfect as you thought.. if you're going to get upset by a neg.. too much self esteem but no balls.

People that think they're better looking than everyone clearly have a lot of self-esteem... so I don't think a neg on a forum is going to lower anything and if it does well clearly a lot can be said.
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So are you saying because people that think they're beautiful are getting negged, it's okay to neg someone who feels worthless.. as that is only 'fair'? WOW.

It hurts to look in the mirror

Erm, i think you're missing the point. Where did I say it's ok for someone who's self-esteem is already low to feel even worse?

Everyone has insecurities, beautiful or not, it'd be horrible to make them feel worse because you think 'oh, she/he's good looking and they also think so, it's okay to say something mean' And I don't mean solely on a forum.

To neg or say something horrible about someone because they feel good about themselves says a lot imo

I dig your sig (that rhymed) a lot! I'm jealous.

I think I am slightly above average, I just don't like my body, that's all.

I think people (especially good looking people) purposley underrate there looks, just so they don't look arrogant or up themselves. But hey this is a forum, and if somebody thinks your arrogant or up yourself, then you dont care...as much! So, go on be honest.

I would rate my looks as slightly above average. I always used to think I was below, but now I'm fairly confident about my looks. I'm certainly not the bees knees, and some people say I'm not there type at all, but certain girls find me attractive. Overall, I'd say I'm slightly above average. And that's not because I'm up myself, I just anaylse and observe peoples comments and reactions.

As for other aspects of a relationship I am a sensetive guy, so sadly by okay looks probably wont get me anywhere too fast. See, I just couldn't end on an arrogant note. Us Brits, ey, we dont like bragging. Poll, coming soon.

i think i'm very good looking... pretty much get compliments/stares all the time. confident and happy in my appearance

photo? Just because people stare at you doesn't mean you're attractive. You're prob one of these TOWIE wannabe types who thinks they're hot because they slap on loads of makeup when they're not, they're actually ordinary at best

Hater.

photo? Just because people stare at you doesn't mean you're attractive. You're prob one of these TOWIE wannabe types who thinks they're hot because they slap on loads of makeup when they're not, they're actually ordinary at best

i'd never post a photo - i don't need validation from strangers online.

and not at all, the towie style couldn't be further from mine. as i said, compliments and stares, and general attention.

i don't understand this utterly bizarre thing of being rude and trying to insult others, when they're just happy with themselves whilst not putting anyone else down.

there's nothing wrong with going through life thinking you're attractive - why is it considered bad to feel good about yourself?

there is something wrong with being nasty and judgemental for no reason however.