I completely agree OP..
I am sick of girls getting pregnant and it instantly being the mans fault, "he didn't wear a condom so it's his fault" what about the pill, or the femidom... Its not like the condom is the only type of contraception.. Why should it just be down to the man? Why can't a woman carry a condom? If the bloke refuse to wear it then simply refuse to lay on your back with your legs open wide..
The day after I lost my virginity I went straight to the doctors to be put on the pill.. I weren't gunna have a screaming child ruin my childhood!!
Most people in my school claimed to lose their virginity at 13, which in my mind is completely sick, I lost mine only about 2 months before my sixteenth..
Some people in my school were pregnant by 13 too which, at that age, you're still a child yourself..
I've heard many people say also "well I decided to keep the baby so I didn't have to go out and work" which just boils my blood... There has been many occasions in the city where I've just wanted to kill someone.. I just think of these poor children asking their parents when they're old enough to know the birds and bees, how they came along and how mummy decided to go along with having a kid, I can imagine the stupidity and brutality of them saying "well you we're an easy way for me to claim benefits and sit on my fat arse!!"
I am not generalising but I have honestly heard a few teens say that it's easier so they won't have to work and will still get paid
I understand sometimes accidents happen, but the legal age is 16, and normally the person a teen lose their virginity to their not in a relationship with, but surely you don't just slip and the boys penis ends up inside? That would be a real accident not the condom splitting, or forgetting..
I love the story I've heard many school friends say "we were drunk and it just happened, we didn't know what we were doing"
I'm sorry, but I've been so drunk I could even move let alone walk and I never decided to jump on the next boy that looked at me.. 13-16 year olds know exactly what they are doing when they are drunk, even though the alcohol affects them, it doesn't affect their brain as much, it's why they also don't get hang overs..
Its just another lame excuse.. God I hate my generation.. Some of us need to be shot..
I haven't actually seen one person from my school who is a teen mother to be a brilliant mother so far, they just palm the, off to friends and relatives and go out getting pissed.. SETTING A GREAT EXAMPLE!! I also don't know one who was already in a relationship with the father, or even still with the father!!!
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