21 and have never done anything with a guy...

I'm a 21 year old female university student who's never doneanything with a guy, and I'm tired of being alone. I've never been on a date, kissed or even held hands with someone. My lack of experience gets me down sometimes, but my major problem is that I feel incredibly lonely. My standards aren't particularly high, I just want someone to cuddle with, who I find attractive and get along with. Why is that so hard to find?

Just relax into it 'a watched kettle NEVER boils'

I'm a 21 year old female university student who's never doneanything with a guy, and I'm tired of being alone. I've never been on a date, kissed or even held hands with someone. My lack of experience gets me down sometimes, but my major problem is that I feel incredibly lonely. My standards aren't particularly high, I just want someone to cuddle with, who I find attractive and get along with. Why is that so hard to find?

I'm a 21 year old female university student who's never doneanything with a guy, and I'm tired of being alone. I've never been on a date, kissed or even held hands with someone. My lack of experience gets me down sometimes, but my major problem is that I feel incredibly lonely. My standards aren't particularly high, I just want someone to cuddle with, who I find attractive and get along with. Why is that so hard to find?

I'm a 21 year old female university student who's never doneanything with a guy, and I'm tired of being alone. I've never been on a date, kissed or even held hands with someone. My lack of experience gets me down sometimes, but my major problem is that I feel incredibly lonely. My standards aren't particularly high, I just want someone to cuddle with, who I find attractive and get along with. Why is that so hard to find?

lacking this emotional security is horrible.

What do you mean?

You sound desperate, I'm not sure why you're having issues. Either you're REALLY REALLY REALLY ugly, or... you're REALLY REALLY ugly, even then there would still be guys lining...

My guess is your not social enough.

I am one of the few people here who genuinely doesn't care if single or not?

You sound desperate, I'm not sure why you're having issues. Either you're REALLY REALLY REALLY ugly, or... you're REALLY REALLY ugly, even then there would still be guys lining...

My guess is your not social enough.

truss, some people make such a big deal about being in a relationship, why though?

Why do you feel like at 21 you should've done these things. I'm a 21 year old female and I've never done anything with a guy either but I don't let it determine my hapiness. I am not going to lie and say there haven't been times were I've thought the same as you though.

But you shouldn't feel that life has a tickbox.

I think partly the reason why you feel lonely is because you tell yourself that you are or that you let others/society standards determine what you should've done by now or what classifies you as lonely.

I think you should keep high standards for yourself so that when you do find him everything will be that much sweeter and that the first guy you get to experience life with isn't just some randomer because you felt that you had to do stuff.

Be comfortable with yourself and be no one else other than the beautiful woman that God created you to be! That cute guy who will make it his life's mission to make you happy and give you all the cuddles you want will find you soon enough. Just be patient and focus on you!

God created you to be!