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I have difficulty saying no

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Reply 40

PrincessBO$$

Original post by RDKGames

Don't worry, bro. There is still hope as you can see.

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wow.

Reply 41

L's Successor

Original post by RDKGames

Don't worry, bro. There is still hope as you can see.

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You're weird guy m8
When did you become a troll

Reply 42

RDKGames

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Original post by L's Successor

You're weird guy m8
When did you become a troll

Calm down, brah, it's banter.

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Reply 43

41b

Original post by PrincessBO$$

I am

gonna stay a good girl.

not with your ass :mmm:

Reply 44

RDKGames

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Original post by 41b

not with your ass :mmm:

LOL

Reply 45

L's Successor

Original post by RDKGames

Calm down, brah, it's banter.

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I am calm bro, I'm just saying you act differently these days :tongue:

Reply 46

RDKGames

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Original post by L's Successor

I am calm bro, I'm just saying you act differently these days :tongue:

Different? What do you mean? I'm full on srs on the Maths forums and full on banter on the chat forums. :tongue:

Reply 47

1secondsofvamps

Same, I always have trouble saying no because I feel bad/guilty afterwards

Reply 48

username986184

Original post by SayoniRoy

Sorry I don't live in UK :smile:

2,000 rupees then?**

Reply 49

SayoniRoy

Original post by TeachChemistry

2,000 rupees then?**

Its ₹86~£1 now :P

Reply 50

It's****ingWOODY

Original post by SayoniRoy

Sorry I don't live in UK :smile:

Paypal innit.

Reply 51

username986184

Original post by SayoniRoy

Its ₹86~£1 now :P

We Brits engineered that so foreigners could afford to come on holiday here. When you come to visit remember to bring my *2,000 rupees. 😎

Reply 52

Harold Godwinson

Original post by SayoniRoy

For most part, I have difficulty saying no if someone asks me for favour. This leads to lots of pressure and I am left with tedious works of others. If I say no I feel like I am being rude. How to refuse doing work for someone else politely? How can I help myself in this situation?

I can help you. Will you send me nudes of yourself? Haha problem solved! :u:

Reply 53

130398

Original post by SayoniRoy

Once I told my friend that I don't have time to help her with her work and she got so mad at me that she stopped talking to me. I am afraid from that time. I feel like I will lose friends.

It's probably because you established yourself as someone who always says yes. Only say yes to important requests, things that can not legitimately be done alone or by the person asking. Simple as that.

Reply 54

PYDogVan

Original post by SayoniRoy

Once I told my friend that I don't have time to help her with her work and she got so mad at me that she stopped talking to me. I am afraid from that time. I feel like I will lose friends.

This is the issue. You had a bad experience which has left you in fear that if you do the same thing again (say no) someone will get angry and stop talking to you. Trust me though the more you worry and do things for people out of fear the more these people will try to use you.

I remember a "friend" in my teenage years who would do just this and it led to a situation where they would stop talking and get angry when I refused to buy things for them; vile individual.

It'll come in time; as you have more exposure to the world/work etc you'll naturally learn where to put limits. For now just work on getting over the past experience and know its better not to have these kinds of people in your life. If that "friend" comes crawling back tell her to get stuffed and know she's the one missing out.