I Never Want to Go Out

Not everyone at uni is a party animal or a socialite so you won't be seen as weird or a loner if you decide not to partake in the university madness. Just make sure you actually socialise some and not be completely anti social.

Universities have plenty of people just like you so you won't be alone. You'll make friends who won't bother you when they want to go partying but will be around when they just want to relax. You'll make friends who could become your future band mates, who just like to have jamming sessions when not asleep, at work or in lectures. Don't worry yourself too much as you'll soon find those that are like you (people who prefer to avoid the big party scene etc).

Just make sure you stay open minded to the odd social cos if you don't socialise a little how you going to find potential band mates?

I'm the same. I don't particularly like partying, clubbing or dancing and going to the pub and drinking is something I do very rarely and only to see my friends who go there. I will drink socially 1-2 glasses and then leave it at that, feeling drained by the social interaction.

Nobody should ever make you feel weird for not wanting to do these things and if they do then they're not worth your time. Not everyone in their youth has to go out and do what all their friends are doing if they don't want to. There are people like you, it's just that we're all at home haha :P

My advice? Message the people you want to patch up with (people you're comfortable with I presume?) and suggest a mini outing in the day-time that doesn't involve activities that make you uncomfortable. Perhaps there's a bowling alley or a cinema nearby? As Quintilius says as well, you will hopefully make some like-minded friends in your band too.