What do you call a good amount?
£30k per year (before tax)? £50k? £100k?
What would stress you out at work?
For example, I'd be more stressed working under a Sergeant Major type boss than if I was the boss. Whilst for other people, it's the other way round.
Would having to be at a place of work at a certain time every day stress you out?
Would commuting to work stress you out?
Would travelling to different locations stress you out?
Would going to the same location every work day stress you out? Or would meeting new people at new locations each day or each week stress you out?
Would doing a repetitive set of tasks stress you out?
Would a lack of routine in your work stress you out?
Would you being given clear deadlines stress you out? Would open ended work with no set deadlines stress you out?
What about when it comes to the priority between earning more money and minimising stress? Which is more important to you?
How do you think working extremely hard now on your A levels will result in you having a more relaxed job? Say for example you get 3 or 4 A*'s, how does that help you get a more relaxed job than if you got BBC?
Do you think someone is going to offer to pay you a lot of money for the cushiest of jobs, because they're impressed you got A*'s and went to Oxford? Or do you think it's more likely in the real world that people will pay you for solving their problems or satisfying their needs or wants (in the broadest sense of these terms)? And that your ability to provide a desired service or goods to others will have nothing to do with your academic achievements and a lot to do with other stuff, such as exactly what service or goods you can supply.
There's a lot to think about here. But your future money earning is key. Get clear goals on that and everything else, including when and where to get your first boyfriend will fall into place.
You're not some average idiot. You're a cut above the norm. Let's get your thinking on your career goals a cut above the norm. And tailored to you. So that you can have a fantastic, amazing life.
Think of it as your money earning goals, behaviour and actions for the next 5 years should be like the finest tailored set of clothes made from the finest materials. Pure quality that fits you perfectly. And not some off the peg, baggy polyester outfit from Primark. And not some hugely expensive, ready to wear Gucci dress that gives you an initial thrill on getting it, but ultimately leaves you dissatisfied.