Is curiosity about sex with a disabled woman OK?

I have had a new fantasy. Like, a disabled woman who does not really have a sex life but is attractive, treating her good, protecting her, and giving her some of the attention that she hasn't had and bringing here pleasure.

Is this OK, and is it wrong to seek it?

Usually I think fetishes are good, but this is wrong.


The worst thing is to undermine another person's autonomy by creating a situation where they need you, rather than want you.

It's fine. I think it's quite nice actually that you want to please her but only thing I'd say is if this kind of scenario were to ever arise you cannot mess the poor girl around purely for your own pleasure i.e. Have your fun and then when you've had enough you do a runner... This would most definitely NOT be okay.

I don't want to do that...that sounds horrible. I'm just curious and I suppose there is an element of what they are missing and maybe if they don't realise they are attractive because of their disability when they are....it gives them a feminine vulnerability

I have had a new fantasy. Like, a disabled woman who does not really have a sex life but is attractive, treating her good, protecting her, and giving her some of the attention that she hasn't had and bringing here pleasure.

Is this OK, and is it wrong to seek it?

There's have to be a mental connection and attraction anyway I think.
But then it would appeal to me. There is a bit of a damsel and distress thing that in a feminist world appeals to me. To be chivalrous and protect, make sure shes is safe.

You all disturb me. Fantasising about sleeping with a disabled person is not normal it's creepy

Usually I think fetishes are good, but this is wrong.


The worst thing is to undermine another person's autonomy by creating a situation where they need you, rather than want you.

He said he had a fantasy, though - not a fetish. Whilst there is sex involved in this particular fantasy, it doesn't seem to be purely sexual, it seems to be about taking someone disabled under his wing, satisfying her needs and making her feel wanted. Not my cuppa, but admirable nonetheless.