..anal sex..

KdySk8rGirl

Im trying to figure out why this thread hasnt been deleted. Any mention of sex is usually wiped out straight away.

Um, no it's not. Not if it's discussed in a sensible way rather than a 'Haha anal' sort of way.

Reply 23

SciFi25

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KdySk8rGirl

Im trying to figure out why this thread hasnt been deleted. Any mention of sex is usually wiped out straight away.

Possibly because Its a genuine thread asking for help and no one has made any offensive comments yet...

Reply 24

Onearmedbandit

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KdySk8rGirl

Im trying to figure out why this thread hasnt been deleted. Any mention of sex is usually wiped out straight away.

Well it's not just any old sex thread. I think the author genuinely wants to know about people's experiences to help her decide whether to try it or not.

I think <3 is okay with threads like this so long as they don't turn into graphic depictions of .. well .. you know :smile:

If you want that, subscribe and go into the sex thread :p:

Reply 25

Use lots of lube and make sure you are really turned on (try lots of oral first, slow build up without actually coming is best) then it is more likely you will be relaxed and the whole thing will be easier. I didn't like it the first few times but now I absolutely love it, there is nothing else as good.

Maybe not the first time but once you are more used to it try rubbing your clit whist having anal sex for the most amazing orgasm ever!

Reply 26

mellow-yellow

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It's odd cos I used to be one of those people saying no way, i would never do that, but getting slightly tempted now. Hmmmm, tricky. :smile:

I guess if you're with someone you trust and know they will stop if you want then it can't be of any harm.

Reply 27

Oh and if you are buying lube I personally prefer Durex to KY, although Durex can be a bit sticky KY has a more bitter taste. If you are only using it for anal then the taste probably won't be an issue, but the lube makes for great handjobs as well.

I have heard that astroglide is the very best but you can't get it in most places in the UK. If you are buying online have a look for it.

Reply 28

twiga

15

I've done it a couple of times and it was ok, but the last time it hurt so much I was crying and was nearly sick :frown:

Just make sure you really want to do it, and make sure your bf knows to stop if you say so.

Reply 29

Lauren18

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ciara

Those were my sentiments exactly, but I've totally been brought around to the idea! Maybe I'm being brainwashed...

Cxx

I'm sure you're not being brainwashed Ciara - and if you're more keen on the idea after finding out more about it there's nothing 'wrong' with that. It's far better to do that than to be pressured into it by some guy - which has happened to some girls I know.

There's no harm in at least trying it, if you've taken all the necessary precautions. There are more medical risks involved than usual, so it's worth finding out everything beforehand.

Whatever happens, I hope everything goes ok! xxx

Reply 30

mousey

o *wishes she was a subscriber*

ASS sounds amazing. We could convert people. it's amazing the amount of girls i know who i've been able to reassure about anal sex. tbh i was worried before i tried it though. xx

Reply 31

To be honest I'm not sure where the attraction is for guys. Unless you have a real obsession a hole's a hole isn't it?

Reply 32

Onearmedbandit

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SammyD

To be honest I'm not sure where the attraction is for guys. Unless you have a real obsession a hole's a hole isn't it?

Well I can't speak from experience, but I guess it's a bit of a taboo isn't it? It's a bit naughty so people want to do it :smile:

Plus it probably feels different to normal... I guess.

Reply 33

James T

To be honest i found it overrating, my gf didn't like it either, didn't really feel right

Reply 34

Yeah, they're all the reasons I can think of, which is why I'm surprised that guys want it and girls don't, when it's girls that get more pleasure from it.

Still, once we sort our ASS out we can spread the word and give anal sex the reputation it deserves.

Reply 35

mightywarrior87

I think it's great (on the receiving end, dunno about from the other side). Lots of lube, relax and don't go too fast. If you tear some of the delicate membranes it will HURT!

Reply 36

mousey