I have gotten lucky with such a good driving instructor for my first time.
In the first few lessons I nearly crashed a few times into parked cars, but while I nearly gave him a heart attack (he drives an Audi A3 so he’s very calm for me nearly crashing a car like that) he remained relatively calm and just told me carry on and be careful.
I have bad concentration and listening skills, and despite me nearly running a set of traffic lights when he first took me on proper roads, where he had to emergency break because he kept telling me to break, hoping I’d hear him, and even raised his voice, but in the end he had to break. He never gets really annoyed (maybe slightly, occasionally, when I just seem to not be doing anything he tells me at all which happens too often lately) and keeps complementing me if I do something well, even if it’s small. He focuses on what I struggle with and says some people learn at different rates, and says he tailors the lessons to the students so he knows if I ask to go over something whether or not it’s worth the money for me.
He has even turned up early on occasion. Once he turned up 2-3 minutes late and apologised (which I saw no need for and told him so since it wasn’t ant late) because he needed to go home for the toilet.
He can get irritated at times when I ask him to repeat directions (“yeah, I just said that”) or if I take about 5 seconds to follow through with an instruction like when to indicate since I’m trying so hard to focus on everything at once, and watching where I’m steering, but he remains patient and encouraging.
He’ll ask me how I think it went after every lesson, and lets me message him if I have any questions outside of the lessons, and has even told me that if I cannot afford it don’t try and take more lessons a week, don’ Feel like I need to, so he clearly cares more about the teaching than the money.
Despite nearly rear ending a parked bus, where he did shout and yanked the steering wheel just a second in time, he still wasn’t mad at me. He calmed down almost instantly. In a situation like that him not even raising his voice, never mind shouting, would make me think he was worse. Sometimes, when a driving instructor shouts it’s not a sign of a bad instructor.
I have heard of some really bad horror driving instructor stories...I guess I got really lucky.