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what do gals find attractive in a man?

Ok, me being a curious person- what do girls find attractive in men i.e physical and emotional/personality? Do u hav general rules on features you find attractive or does it significantly differ for each person.Also what do u think a man/boy can do to make himself more attractive? :cool:

Reply 1

spoon1

13

A good sense of humour is a must.

Of course there are no general rules - if everyone liked the same sort of person then the others would be a bit buggered wouldn't they?

Reply 2

IZZY!

15

i dunno, but i always end up scaring girls with my stupid jokes.lol.i just dont know. it is just me.lol.

Reply 3

ChocoVet

good sense of humour
sensibility
talents
ambition
kind heart

Reply 4

Logan

4

good sense of humour
sensibility
talents
ambition
kind heart

oh man, all those stuff is lacking from me. Oh boy, im a total loser

Reply 5

Tatty

I don't think there's a set 'rule' for what women find attractive in a man - it differs from person to person. I usually find humour attractive and someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously. I also like someone with a bit of depth to their character and someone who can hold an intelligent conversation. Someone else on the other hand could find all those traits really unattractive. It's all down to personal preference.

As for your last question, I'm going to embrace the cheese - just be more confident!

Reply 6

hippieglitter

19

I like a guy who doesn't wanna get too serious too quickly. But i also like a guy who teases me if we get to a suitable stage for that. A sense of humour helps, but someone who will mean it when they tell me they love me or not say it if they don't mean it. The best thing at the moment about my boyfriend is he can put a permanant smile on my face just from looking at me.

Reply 7

chazzinio

OP

this is strange. nearly all us guys think girls judge them soley on looks ( ok maybe this is true at a club or at sum drunken rave). R u all saying they play no part in u being attracted towards them????

Reply 8

Tatty

Ant93

I like a guy who doesn't wanna get too serious too quickly. But i also like a guy who teases me if we get to a suitable stage for that. A sense of humour helps, but someone who will mean it when they tell me they love me or not say it if they don't mean it. The best thing at the moment about my boyfriend is he can put a permanant smile on my face just from looking at me.

Honesty is also important - almost forgot that one! :p:

Reply 9

Vijay1

Tatty

Honesty is also important - almost forgot that one! :p:

Awful fact: Nearly all successful modern relationship are based on lies. :rolleyes:

Reply 10

Tatty

chazzinio

this is strange. nearly all us guys think girls judge them soley on looks ( ok maybe this is true at a club or at sum drunken rave). R u all saying they play no part in u being attracted towards them????

Initially, it does play a part, but girls on the whole like their partners to have some substance to them.

Reply 11

Jayjayjay

1

Yes.
As mentioned - honesty is a number one for me, after that :wink:

Good looks do not necessarily equal a 'good' person etc

Reply 12

Tatty

Vijay1

Awful fact: Nearly all successful modern relationship are based on lies. :rolleyes:

Not in my opinion - me and my boyfriend are happy and our relationship isn't based on lies, but I guess it's all down to personal experience I guess.

Reply 13

ChocoVet

nasht

oh man, all those stuff is lacking from me. Oh boy, im a total loser

Hey I'm sure that's not the case :wink:

And I'm going to add: confidence but not arrogance, modesty but not humiliation

Reply 14

Manatee

14

Intelligence and education, sense of humour (very important), honesty and kindness... Just a few things on my list :smile:

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Reply 15

cat_meiow

1

The only rule I have is has to be taller than me, apart from that depends on the person.

Reply 16

Amanda

9

I always fall for the gentlemen :love:

Although it doesn't seem like there are many in my generation.. :frown:

Everyones too busy being gangster, emo, and all that other crap. :confused:

Reply 17

ChocoVet

The perfect guy would be about a head taller than me and have a bit of muscles (but not too much).

But maybe I can overlook the physical aspect when I'm in love - like Charlotte and Harry in Sex and the City.