wow cant believe how many responses i've had!
ok. i will try looking for that book called the game (tho im a very terrible reader, i havent read a complete book since secondary school, which is around 7 years now?)
in terms of my confidence, and acting. hmm its funny thats mentioned coz im wicked at impersonations and did an extra bit of acting back at school, so maybe i shud just exploit that in terms of acting confident :s
random conversations, whoever said that thank you! i will really try this. i normally feel as tho i dnt want to intrude in other ppls daily lives unless im invited. if sum1 starts a convo with me im gr8 but im never the person to say the first sentence!
in terms of my appearance, i dnt want to look like the sort of guy who has spent the last year of his life making himself look good. thanks for the advice but to me that sounds like you will look like a guy who only cares about yourself. i will have to meet in the middle with this one. i did mention i DO wear contacts now, so glasses are history. my hair is probs an issue, coz i never style it, its long (always past my shoulders) because im too lazy to maintain it
i always wished when i was younger that i would b bald so i wudnt have to worry. but now i want as much hair as i can while i have it :s strange way of thinking yeh. i always wanted to be different so i just grew my hair, i saw it as though there really arent many hairstyles for guys nowadays - u have skinhead, graded 1-5, short back n sides, or emo. and those r the only acceptable hairstyles????
in terms of going out i mite also b part of a dying breed... im very passionate about music (rock and classic rock) and one thing i hate most is modern nightclubs playing all the same music. the heavy bass physically makes me feel sick, i cant describe it. so this restricts my options to places i enjoy, which sounds sad and selfish i know, but there u go
ideally one major trait i look for in a girl, is that she shares the same music taste. thats why i tried social networking sites, but it just seems like im getting nowhere with it. before u ask, no im not an emo, i dnt do all that falloutboy and whatever the other emo bands are, lol. i just have a passion for music. just like some guys have a passion for sport or cars or their muscles.
i can say one thing tho. wenever im with friends, i am usually the most confident person there, im always witty sarcastic smiling and making ppl laugh but yeh, thats part of the method i need to stick to. i just need to reach the next step!
if any1 wants to comment on anything ive just said please feel free! im just reflecting on all the great advice i've had from this thread so far! thanks