Guys: If a girl ... 'Serenaded' you a love song if you liked her, how would you react

Well here's the background story...

Boy asked the girl out. The girl was going through some things and said no, even though she liked him back. The guy thought it was because the girl didn't like her, so he went away for a few days with his mates and didnt reply to any texts/calls from the girl. When he got back, he sent the girl lyrics from the song Candy - Paolo Nutini, because that was "their song" but the girl didnt get these lyrics until today because she was sorting out some problems, and by his last status update, the girl gets the feeling that the guy thinks she is ignoring him, but she isnt.

Question is, If you were the boy in this situation, and the girl (who doesnt sing/play guitar in public) played and sang the song Candy to you in front of quite a few other people, (which she has a bit of a fear of) how would you react? Obviously I know the guy would be hurt, but the girl hadnt told him of the things happening, despite the fact she felt the same way, and I was wondering from a guys view, how would you feel/react?

Sorry for it being so long :L

Reply 1

kat2pult

18

Argh, the 16th century called, they want their tackiness back.

Reply 2

Travelling_Girl

9

Even though I'm not a boy, I think its rather cute :smile:

Reply 3

Wahaaaay

9

It wouldn't do anything for me, I'm not into the muscial types i just don't think it's that feminine really

Reply 4

username549578

13

I think i would literally vomit all over you.

Reply 5

bramz19

16

If you can't sing, please don't do this. Please. Even if you can, just don't. Hire Paolo Nutini or something if you really feel the need for this.

Reply 6

Broderss

3

it would somehow be incredibly gay.

Reply 7

Architecture-er

19

Original post by Jadelyndsey

Well here's the background story...

Boy asked the girl out. The girl was going through some things and said no, even though she liked him back. The guy thought it was because the girl didn't like her, so he went away for a few days with his mates and didnt reply to any texts/calls from the girl. When he got back, he sent the girl lyrics from the song Candy - Paolo Nutini, because that was "their song" but the girl didnt get these lyrics until today because she was sorting out some problems, and by his last status update, the girl gets the feeling that the guy thinks she is ignoring him, but she isnt.

Question is, If you were the boy in this situation, and the girl (who doesnt sing/play guitar in public) played and sang the song Candy to you in front of quite a few other people, (which she has a bit of a fear of) how would you react? Obviously I know the guy would be hurt, but the girl hadnt told him of the things happening, despite the fact she felt the same way, and I was wondering from a guys view, how would you feel/react?

Sorry for it being so long :L

I'd prefer it in private, otherwise I'd be feeling too self-concious to think straight :wink:

but in private I'd think it's really romantic, especially since I'm musical myself

Reply 8

Jadelyndsey

OP

18

Original post by kat2pult

Argh, the 16th century called, they want their tackiness back.

This is what I thought, but to be fair, they have both mentioned in passing how much they find this concept to be cute, the concern is whether or not he would be mad and walk away, or whether he would take it as a make-up gesture...

Reply 9

Black Mammoth

11

I would try not to kill it.

Reply 10

brian_lawd

8

why don't you tell him how you feel instead?

ah think you're getting romance mixed up with gayness.

Reply 11

Jadelyndsey

OP

18

Original post by Architecture-er

I'd prefer it in private, otherwise I'd be feeling too self-concious to think straight :wink:

but in private I'd think it's really romantic, especially since I'm musical myself

THANK YOU! Yeh, that was an issue too, public vs private, but I think the problem with private would be trying to get him alone whilst holidng a guitar, he would kind of guess it was coming, but I will try. I think if i was him I'd be a bit embarassed, so private sounds better :L Thanks! ps musical people rock just saying...

Reply 12

Complex Simplicity

14

Let's just say whatever possibility of a relationship would have been instantly obliterated by such a trite and frankly vulgar act.
Besides it's so uncool.

Reply 13

Jadelyndsey

OP

18

Original post by Complex Simplicity

Let's just say whatever possibility of a relationship would have been instantly obliterated by such a trite and frankly vulgar act.
Besides it's so uncool.

Ok ok guys from the huge overwhelming majority of you saying it's stupid, are you all saying I should just come out and say I like him? but would you not be p!ssed that I said no and thought I was screwing around with you though?

Reply 14

auzzieman04

11

it would make me smile :biggrin:

i might even sing along, but what happens depends on the guy he might get very embarrassed and hate you :s-smilie:

Reply 15

SirMasterKey

18

Depends how you pull it off. After thinking you were ignoring me I might think now you were just mocking me.

Reply 16

SirMasterKey

18

Original post by Jadelyndsey

Ok ok guys from the huge overwhelming majority of you saying it's stupid, are you all saying I should just come out and say I like him? but would you not be p!ssed that I said no and thought I was screwing around with you though?

Possibly, unless you explained why you said no at first.

Reply 17

Complex Simplicity

14

Op rather than attempt such a cringeworthy gimmick, simply talk to him tell him how you feel and let him decide. Like most guys he probably doesn't like being messed about so just level with him.

Reply 18

auzzieman04

11

Original post by Jadelyndsey

Ok ok guys from the huge overwhelming majority of you saying it's stupid, are you all saying I should just come out and say I like him? but would you not be p!ssed that I said no and thought I was screwing around with you though?