I would never say anything to her because there probably isn't really a problem! I just wasn't taking the range of development into account.
I didn't realise Ella had hearing loss, does that effect her balance and such?
She sounds like a loon! I love it when children get really excited about stuff, it's so cute!
You should just do what is right for you, it is probably a good idea to finish university before having a baby as then you can just go straight into a career when the baby is old enough. But that's just logistics really, I think completing a degree with a baby is definitely manageable (having done it myself) - it's just a case of being more organised.
Nobody is 'ready' for a baby, regardless of age. Nobody. It's hard to have a real idea of what it is really like until you have your own- good things and bad. I currently work with mothers of all ages and this seems to be one thing that every new mum can relate to.
I say just do what you want! Who gives a stuff what other people think, you're ready, your fiancé is ready and most importantly you are financially secure. Don't let what other people
might think hold you back from anything you want to do.