How to stop being so frigid...

Basically I'm 18, have had boyfriends in the past but never been past "first base".
New boyfriend, and I don't want to carry on being so frigid.
It's as if I've left it for so long, that I don't know how to do anything further and I'm worried about getting it wrong! And I would feel so awkward having anything past kissing done to me.

Basically, 2nd base etc I have no idea what to do, I just think it will be mortifying when he realises how inexperienced I am .

Yeah I know people are starving in the world and this is shallow but it's important to me!

Basically I'm 18, have had boyfriends in the past but never been past "first base"..

Basically, 2nd base etc I have no idea what to do, I just think it will be mortifying when he realises how inexperienced I am .

Talk to him about it - he may then take things slower and it saves worrying about it?

It just sounds like nerves, don't worry about it. The important thing would be to tell your boyfriend exactly what you want, maybe try taking charge and being in control as it might be less intimidating than having him lead the way the first time.

Because we were pretty good friends before we recently got together I feel like I can't tell him! I don't know why, I'd just feel like an idiot.

Basically I'm 18, have had boyfriends in the past but never been past "first base".
New boyfriend, and I don't want to carry on being so frigid.
It's as if I've left it for so long, that I don't know how to do anything further and I'm worried about getting it wrong! And I would feel so awkward having anything past kissing done to me.

Basically, 2nd base etc I have no idea what to do, I just think it will be mortifying when he realises how inexperienced I am .

Yeah I know people are starving in the world and this is shallow but it's important to me!

You're not frigid, there's no such thing as frigid.

Do YOU want to take things further, or do you just think you should because you're 18?

My advice: wait until you feel more confident/sure/ready about it and talk to your boyfriend. He should respect your right to not do anything unless/until you want to.

I do. The reason I don't want to is that I'm worried about getting things wrong and appearing as if I don't know what I'm doing (I don't lol).
Maybe I need to trust him more first.

I think he will though I can't see him pushing anything.

It's fine, you're asexual, a lot of girls are like this. Most girls aren't interested in sex, they're asexual to a fault. Don't feel like you need to change for someone else's sake, don't feel pressured to do something just because other people do it. Only do it if you're completely comfortable with it. It's no big deal really.

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