I want to study English Literature. Them: Ooh have you read (enter random book)/do you know (enter random author)? Me: No. Them: How are you going to study Literature if you haven't read these books?!
I haven't read every book in existence!
Also, 'oh God I hated English' which is probably the most common response I've had which is quite sad Also, 'I haven't read a book in years' which is equally sad.
I'm starting a degree in Politics and International Relations later this month, when I tell people that I'm starting this degree soon, pretty much everyone looks at me in a really bored fashion and think: "wtf are you doing studying that". Also the "you should become next prime minister" is a common response.
I study psychology and almost laugh to myself before mentioning this, simply because I know full well that they will respond by saying something along the lines of; "Oooh, don't figure me out!", "better watch what I say around you then, eh!". Makes me feel like a right manipulative cow!
Not started mine yet, but if I mention the word meteorology everybody assumes I want to have a long conversation about the weather forecast, and if I mention mathematics they invite me to do their tax return for them.
just out of genuine curiosity, how so? Do you not subscribe to the belief it is academically rigorous? (which is what I assume the 'impressed' response insinuates?
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What I meant is, to put it bluntly, I am not exceptionally intelligent in any sense, and I still managed to graduate my MPhys degree with a first. It does deal with some complicated things but I'm sure that most people could learn the subject to a high standard if they had the patience. The way you learn physics is not by having profound, giant leaps. It's done by taking baby steps, slowly developing your understanding. I think just about everyone is capable of it. It's not something that only a privileged few of abnormal intellect could comprehend, and if I pretended otherwise I would feel like a fraud.
Doesn't it make you feel slightly awkward that the other person thinks you're smarter than them?
I always find this really embarrassing and say "It's really not as hard as people think!"
I've occasionally said that people only assume it's difficult because it has a lot of maths, but that usually makes the problem worse.
Hmmm, I've never actually thought about that. I'm the kind of person who views myself as inferior to everyone, so I've never actually assumed that they must think I'm somehow better than they are. I think though, considering that all the time I'm thinking that everyone is better than me, it is kinda good to occassionally feel that they think I'm actually better at them than something, instead of always feeling like I'm being looked down on.
Most say "That sounds interesting/difficult" and ask why I want to do it, or comment that it should be useful. So far only one person has said anything along the lines of "ching chang chong", thank God.
If they aren't related to me in any way: "French and ARABIC! Wow! That's so interesting! So are you going to work for the UN?"
If they are a member of my extended family/friends of parents/children of friends of parents: "So...are you going to be a teacher or an interpreter?"
I guess I deserve it for being Bengali but not going into medicine/law/accountancy/pharmacy. I don't have anything against these subjects, but apparently people have a problem with mine!
Well when I tell people i'm going to study Chemistry, they say "Oh so you're going to make drugs? I know where to come in the future then" or assume im either going to be a teacher or work in work in a Chemists :/.
Well when I tell people i'm going to study Chemistry, they say "Oh so you're going to make drugs? I know where to come in the future then" or assume im either going to be a teacher or work in work in a Chemists :/.
Lol yup I get that a lot too! I did chemistry with drug discovery at bath, and as soon as you mention that the requests for all sorts of drugs are fired at you and the presumption that I should know the sodding structures of them all! Like seriously... Oh that and getting asked to explain how to petrol is made ! Oh and I see you're studying chem with nanotechnology! Good choice! I liked my nanotechnology modules... they were hard, but interesting!