Whenever a guy shows interest, likes or pursues me, I push them away.
I don't know why I do it but I seem to run a mile in the opposite direction.
I've been doing this for as long as I remember, since high school. I am now just past 20.
I will break their heart sub-conciously. At the time I don't know what I'm doing, but obviously we all control our reactions right, so this is why it is sub-concious.
I had difficulties with parental love at earlier childhood where parental presence was not really there due to work etc. Sometimes I was brought up by other people and child-minders or nannies. I craved for real affection from parental love but it was subsituted by materialism I suppose. The utility from materialistic substitutes gradually diminished and I became rather resentful and did not appreciate this kind of love anymore. My emotional needs were not met and I began to feel neglected, even though love was there but in a different form. I felt taken for granted.
I approach relationships with a distorted view and actually do not know when a guy likes me. It's crazy, they can tell me straight up they like me, love me, are crazy about me but I won't believe them at all. I just think, 'Yeah right, whatever you're mad.'
Why do I this and what can I do to overcome it?