Why are most gay men so feminine

Why are so many lesbians manly?

While it's true that many Lesbians are manly not the the extent of camp gay men again just a generalization but it seems to be the more attractive the lesbian the less manly they act if they aren't as good looking they seem to be less feminine. So again it looks like they could just be acting the way society tells them to most Lesbians in the media or any that I have met seem to act not much differently to straight women which is in stark contrast to most gay men I have met or seen in the media.

That's a pretty hart generalisation, seeing as 1 in 10 people are statistically gay, count how many people are in your class and count how many people are statistically gay and subtract all people who sound/act camp. You would probably have a few left.

Citation needed.

Citation needed.

Sorry to burst your buble there but, most homosexual men aren't camp. Just because you notice most camp men being gay doesn't mean all camp men are gay, nor all gay men are camp. Would you be able to tell a gay man if he was "acting normall"? Nah, so you can't say most gay men are camp. Like you said it's generalization, it gets you nowhere friend.

Yes this is a generalization I know there are allot of gay men who aren't camp and of course the opposite you get a few camp men who are straight but there is no denying that a high proportion of gay men are camp to varying degrees. I believe that people are born gay or straight (or Bi of course) but what about this campness is this a choice or are many gay men born like this aswell. Do many gay men put this on because that's how society tells them to act just look at gay men in the media (i.e Graham Norton, Louis Spence, Scott Mills, Alan Carr, Gok Wan, Paul O'Grady) they all are camp to varying degrees or look at reality TV like that freak on the X Factor Rylan or the year before Johnny or whatever his name was same with others shows like Big Brother or Shipwrecked they all usually have a token camp gay guy in it. But then you get people like Stephen Fry who I didn't even know was gay until a few months ago and I know a gay guy who is not camp at all I didn't know he was gay until someone told me

Like take football or sport in general for example very few sports stars have come out yes you could say that's because they are afraid of ridicule but in this day and age it wouldn't be much of a big deal and gay men in general tend to favor more feminine activities i.e dancing fashion etc.. there is no denying that.

So the question is are most gay men born that way or are they just acting the way society tells them to or raises them to behave.

"The most widely accepted statistic is that 1 in ever 10 individuals is LGBT; however some research estimates 1 in 20."
http://gaylife.about.com/od/comingout/a/population.htm

Was too general by saying just gay, but statistics are just statistics, they aren't backed up and who really cares apart from homophobic people who want to smash the number down?